says he isn't ready for anything serious right now.
... gets upset when I don't reply back to his messages within a few minutes, but doesn't always reply to my messages.
I'm a bit confused.
2007-02-18 06:23:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is trying to control you. He may like to think he is superstud and that you want him so bad that no matter how he treats you, you will still want him.
2007-02-18 06:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
My opinion: old fashioned male double standard, I'll do what I want and you do what I want too. But perhaps I'm jaded. Now what worries me..reply to messages in a few minutes? Even my Mother dosen't expect that! this is a bad omen and I would be thankful he's not wanting anything serious (can you imagine what he'd expect if he did?) and let our paths peacefully and mysteriously drift apart.
2007-02-18 06:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you get confused , get the hell out of there . If he isn't up to a serious relationship , than he has no control over you . And then getting upset about it is just the perfect mixture for a bad and abusive relationship . Take my word for it .
2007-02-18 06:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by Hopeless 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...I've had married men get jealous if they saw me speaking to another guy (in this case we all worked in the same office). I wasn't involved with the married man but there was a mutual attraction, I know. But it seemed like he got a flash of jealousy on his face when he'd see me talking to another male co-worker. I felt the same if I saw him talking to a female co-worker. I guess it's an ego thing, who knows ? Anyway...your guy sounds immature and selfish...he's playing games. Drop him like a hot potato and move on to someone who's really interested in you. If you still like the other guy and he straightens up and gets serious...well, then...good luck to you.
2007-02-18 06:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are basically jerks except for a few good ones. I had a ex husband who wouldn't come to see my daughter if I was dating anyone because he felt too uncomfortable. My mom always said never try & figure men out because you never will & you'll drive yourself crazy trying
2007-02-18 06:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he doesnt want you btu he doesnt want anyone else to have you either, you should go out and live your life and date anyone you want, if he has sucha serious problem with it them he needs to **** or get off the pot, he needs to tell u he wants to be with you or you deserve something better, he might string you alogn for years before deciding he doesnt love you. don't waste your time, if he really hates you with other guys that much after a few dates he'll come around!
2007-02-18 06:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by ashley1586 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is very hypocritical. You should confront him. This sort of behaviour is so common in men today and btw what background is he? That is hypocritical behaviour with the messages and also egotistical. Being a girl is so hard isn't it?
2007-02-18 06:27:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In his eyes? You're his "Property". You need to confront this Ego. And let him know the score. He either steps up to the Plate, with some respect? Or you're gonna Game, somewhere else.
2007-02-18 06:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to put you i place he can be with you when he has time
There are millions of guys in the Us go looking and you will find manyyou will like
2007-02-18 06:27:38 · answer #9 · answered by aaricka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you....he just does not want to date you right now...but wants you to stay single so he can pick you up when he is ready.
2007-02-18 06:26:20 · answer #10 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋