My bf is a very sensitive and self conscious person. He has always been very self conscious about his 'size'. We recently had sex for the first time and personally I enjoyed it, but he keeps thinking it's small. I don't think it's small. I think it's perfect for me, and I have told him such many, many times. However, this doesn't seem to comfort him. I don't know what to do or tell him anymore...what can I do to make him feel less insecure about his 'size'? Please don't give me any stupid answers...
2007-02-18 06:19:43 · 17 answers · asked by Smiley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Believe me, I've tried EVERY way possible to show him I love it...
2007-02-18 06:28:05 · update #1
tell him that is size fits just perfect in me, you love it
2007-02-18 06:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
reverse the situation...tell him you are also very sensitive and you feel very hurt when he does not want to believe you when you say that his "size" is alright with you. tell him he makes you feel like you are a liar. if he still goes on with his whinning...he is hopeless. try to find a new bf. you would not want to be tied up for the rest of your life with a man who is so obsessed with his penis.
but honestly, if i were in your shoes and i have exhausted all efforts to reassure him and he still keeps whinning......i would tell him the truth....so ok, its small...now can we get over it & move on?
2007-02-18 08:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by babytalk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt harp on the situation. The more you try to explain the more it might make him self consience.I would let him know that you were satisfied afterwards then drop the subject.He will get over it in time.
2007-02-18 06:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by pirategirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to let him know how much you enjoyed it, and how it really doesnt matter to you about size at all. If it doesnt matter to you, it shouldnt matter to him, considering you two are the only ones that will see it.
2007-02-18 06:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by Guy77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, it is not the size that always counts, it is the motion to the ocean!
2007-02-18 06:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not much you can do but keep reassuring him. It will take awhile for him. It was your first time so he just needs time to understand that he can really satisfy you. All this needs is time so try not to get too upset with him.
2007-02-18 06:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by dolphinnut798 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell him that it's not the size that matters but how it's used that counts. You are satisfied so he should be too..
2007-02-18 06:23:55 · answer #7 · answered by Ansy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres not much you can do if he thinks its small then its probably small. if i were you i'd agree with him maybe he's just looking for comfirmation that its small. the key is to stress to him that its perfect for you. if the sex is good then he should be cool.
how small is small
2007-02-18 06:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by QuietAndShy2000 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Aww, this is so sweet. Just keep encouraging him. Don't "talk" about it so much, show him more. I think in this case, actions would speak louder than words!!
2007-02-18 06:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by nikki newman 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
encourage him, and continue to let him know how much he means to you "outside" of your sex life as well
2007-02-26 03:16:26 · answer #10 · answered by Sue G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋