one min he seems well into you and the next its like you`ve dropped of the face of the earth. is it worth waiting around to see what may or may not happen?
2007-02-18 06:16:28 · 20 answers · asked by one who has no name 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Carry on with your life, it's his responsibility to prove himself worthy of your affections, so he has to either sort out his behaviour or miss out.
2007-02-18 06:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - not at all.. the 'everything you look for' would I take it include feeling closer to him than any other human being on earth, thinking of him all the time, missing him, almost feeling like there is an emotional glue between you etc etc?
If so then ditch him - contrary to popular culture this is not true love.. it is a physiological response in your brain which creates chemicals to draw you to a suitable mate..there is no such thing as the 'one' (think of the logistics of finding one destined person out of millions!?) instead the only thing destined is that each of us will meet many potentially suitable partners in this life time so save your energy for the next time you feel this way and hopefully then it is reciprocated..
Knowing how much this has probably dominated your thoughts, letting this one go is easier said than done.. the what ifs etc are a pain to deal with because as I say you will feel drawn to him like a magnet but stay strong - better that he thinks you have got over him as quick as he has you than he gets the satisfaction of another broken heart left behind to inflate his ego..
Be strong and move on.
Really wishing you all the best.
2007-02-18 14:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mistake that most women make is that they think men are complicated beings, when really they are quite simple (and I don't mean that in a derogatory way fellas). If you really like him my advice would be to call him and ask him out, be confident! If he says he's not available on the day you ask, suggest another day. If he still says no than you can be sure that he's not interested, and if that happens he's not worth your time anyway.
Good Luck!!!
2007-02-18 14:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki1990 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get on and not wait for him. You could wait forever and not find the person you are most suited to. You may have to wait for the rest of your life or he may always keep you just hanging on.
2007-02-18 14:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by : 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in a similar situation myself with one guy... I've had a difficult week cos of him... he's been on my mind all week :(
I put a question on here, and most people are advising me to stick around for him and just wait it out... Try and keep yourself busy and if sum1 else nice comes along on the way, go for it, otherwise try not to think about him too much!
All the best...I know exactly how u feel
2007-02-18 14:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by Sona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would want to know why he's being like this. if he has a good reason, ok i will wait around cos i agree with the other answer, that good things come to those who wait. but if they are just messing about, sorry am gone.
2007-02-18 17:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
defo not worth hangin around you are worth more than tht pick yourself up go out n have fun with ur friends think about urself men arnt worth it let em look but not touch until u are ready thn choose wisely n dont get too involved too quick keep em guessin until u know him.
2007-02-18 14:39:15 · answer #7 · answered by judrop111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not wait around... I would get on with my life, keep my options open.... OK.... he may well be Mr Dream Come True....but he is not if he is playing games with you...is he?! Call his bluff... be busy...too busy to see him when he next asks..... schedule another time....don't be too 'eager' to fall in with his whims... life is too short to hang about! Good luck!!!
2007-02-18 15:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by Susie Drew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is going out with someone else. When you don't hear from him he might be with that other person. Don't waste your time, because it might end in a mess
2007-02-18 14:23:20 · answer #9 · answered by x yasmine x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never wait for a man or they will play you and hurt you.
if he was that into you he would not act like that.
trust me ive been thru it with my ex's
my current man is into me as he rings at least twice daily to talk about nothing much if he cant be with me.
2007-02-18 14:21:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋