Okay, I was at my boyfriend's house a few nights ago, and we were doing homework. And when we were done, he took me somewhere. I got so scared I said I had to leave. It was dark and it seemed like no life. Then he said this will change our whole relationship. I thought he was crazy cause our relatoinship was perfect. Then we started to fight and I said I didn't love him. Then I paused and figured out what I said. Then he just looked at me like I was crazy.t Then he said "Fine. Just leave and never come back to me." Then I just ran off in tears. Now I can't sleep cause we haven't talked. And I've been so depressed I can't think strait. Then, then I figured that the song We belong together by Mariah Carey describes what I've been going thru. That's why I don't listen to it anymore, and it's my faveorite song. What should I do?
2007-02-18 05:54:44 · 16 answers · asked by Armani Lucreita Pezzulo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably wanted to force/coerce you into sex that time and got frustrated when you said no. You made a wise choice here, if you would have done otherwise, then you would have ended up in a regretful situation; not to mention a soiled reputation, if he's the kind of jackass that tells, just cause he's so stupid and insecure that he has nothing else to talk about to his friends, who may or may not (probably) really care about him.
2007-02-18 05:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by Caterwault 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off he took you to that place because he was trying to have sex...and if you were not ready you should have told him in a nice way. Sometimes in anger we say things that we do not mean, so maybe you do love him. As far as the song goes, I mean hey if you like it listen to it. It may help you feel better about the situation. I also think that he wanted to have sex with you really bad and maybe you were feeling the pressure. I think that him saying do not come back to me was not what he really meant. Also think tto yourself do you really love him or not...truly and if you do call and express that if he act stupid then it may take time but let him go.
2007-02-18 06:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good for you for getting away... you saved yourself from possible rape. Mariah Carey is my fave singer so I suggest you find other songs from her to empower you in this situation rather than make you dwell in it. She had a lot of songs that made me think if ex lovers so i just stopped listening to that song for awhile then after some time I was able to listen to it again without problems.
2007-02-18 06:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop listening to Mariah Carey
2007-02-18 05:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends. Is he a good guy? Does he care about you? If the answers to those questions are yes, then you should probably apologize. But if he hurt you somehow, then he doesn't deserve you. You have to decide which one it is. You can ask friends and family for advice. They'll probably be able to help. But in the end, go with what your heart tells you.
2007-02-18 05:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by princessnm92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to aplolgize and tell him how you feel and why you yelled at him. He seems to be really sad that you telled at him and you need to tell him how truly sorry you are.
But, he seems like he wanted to have s*x with you or something. if you don't want that, tell him and he SHOULD understand. If not, then it might be time to search for a new boyfriend.You need to tell him that you were scared, spazzed, and confused as you two were fighting. That is what it looks like to me, but i wasn't there so i don't know for sure.
i'm sorry about you're problems =/
Live long and prosperous
Akiidoka H
2007-02-18 06:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Cute T ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey it sounds like he was trying to force you into something you werent comfortable with. You did the right thing by not giving in. Let him go you dont need someone that tries to make you do things you dont want to.
2007-02-18 05:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by pirategirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing by leaving. What was his plans? Why would have changed your relationship? If he wasn't willing to let you know...then I would have left too. I believe that you followed your intuition...and it guided you properly.
2007-02-18 05:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should be the first to step up and call him and tell him you were mad and didnt mean to say what you said.
if he was taking you somewhere dark, that seems scary. i think you were trying to defend yourself
just ask him what it was about
2007-02-18 05:59:43 · answer #9 · answered by xoxoletsplayxoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that song describes me and my ex boyfriend too... uhm anyway. if you really dont love him, then just let go. but if you do i think you should just call him and apologize for what you said, you were just really scared by what he was saying. Do it before its too late!! Dont let another second go by without telling him how you feel.
2007-02-18 06:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by one_thing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋