i really love my man and letting him go is gona hurt me real bad.He's been communicating with his x,each time i question him about it he's always tellin me theys nothing goin on between them.He's close to his x' gurl's mum and this is really freaking me out.He drops off his x at college every single mornign and i only found out last night after being 2getha close to 2months,not only that also i found photos of a topless gurl in his fone and again i questioned him he brushed the whole thing aside by sayin it's sum gurl that likes him.Dont really know what to do,scared to let go coz i think i wont find another guy who's gona make me happy like he does....help!!!!!
2007-02-18 05:54:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing in your paragraph describes a man that is making you happy. Get rid of him. He's screwing you over.
2007-02-18 05:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by missyhobeeb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweet by name, sweet by nature by the sounds of you. You deserve better than that. Let him go and find yourself a man who will be devoted to you. It will hurt now but it will hurt a lot more in the future when you are more emotionally involved - good luck and never settle for second best
2007-02-18 06:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow to me it sounds like he is not really interested in you nomore and he dont know how to let you go in words so he is showing it in his actions and he thinks that would get frustrated and give up i would sit down with him and asked him if he really wants to be with you and if he says yes then tell him how you feel about him talking to his ex and letting the gurl put those pics on his phone tell him your not jeolouse or mad you just have mad feelings for him and dont want to loose him show him you really care and if he says he dont then obviously its time to let him go its hard but not worth wasting time on someone who dont love you the same way and belive me there will be another someone who comes that will be much more better
2007-02-18 06:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know what you really want. If this package is what you really want then stick with it. If not, then find the courage to change. At least start by telling him about your views on his behaviour and see if he thinks enough of you to change. If not, then at least you will know.
You will find another guy when you have got your self confidence back.
2007-02-18 06:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by MsCurious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay with him, he is going to hurt you more, get out why you can, he is not true to you, seems like a player to me, he wants his cake, and wants to eat it too. Yes it is going to hurt, but remember you do not have to keep putting up with his lies, and giving so much time to his ex. who only knows what is going on their. Their is someone out their for you, who will only want you. and you owe it to yourself, to be nice to yourself. You do not need this.
2007-02-18 06:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW what a jerk. who cares that he treats you okay, you can treat yourself just fine on your own hunny. that is NOT ok that he has a topless girl in his phone and it is HORRIBLE that he would jepordize your current relationship by socializing with his x...get rid of him, as much as it hurts you are BETTER OFF SINGLE and partying it up with your girl friends.
2007-02-18 06:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by Ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd get shot of him.
Why would he drop an X off if he's with you and happy.
Sounds like he is having his cake and eating it.
2007-02-18 06:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is doing this now he will do it forever.hun my advice is dump him you say you love him but sorry to say this but sounds to my he doesnt love you. get rid of him now before feelings grow stronger.good luck hun..
2007-02-18 06:04:42 · answer #8 · answered by lady z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋