they keep paying her lots of money .buying a flat, expensive cars,... my husband is really sad .he thinks they dont like him
2007-02-18 05:40:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Dress him up like a little girl and take him over there. He will feel comfortable with that and his parents might buy him a new pair of saddle shoes to go with his dress.
2007-02-18 05:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you have to consider that perhaps your sister in law needs more help and attention than your husband. He should rejoice in the knowledge that he is better off and that he is not being ignored only honored for his Independence. If he thinks his parents don't like him ask the question. If they really don't like him move to another country and start over
2007-02-26 01:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by David B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your husband need to do is go to his parents and tell them how he feels and find out why they are doing what they are doing to his sister. ANd make sure to get everything out in the open and that way he won't be so sad and not know what's going on with his parents.
2007-02-18 05:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do. Has he given them a reason to dislike him?
Does your husband have nothing? Does she need the attention. Is she alone? Nothing u can do. Nothing for u to do. It is his to do something about. U feel the need to help but it is not your your place. Give him all the support and love u can . Make him your special man. Give HIM too much attention. U r his family
2007-02-25 09:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by choose happiness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to be sad. no different boy or girl. do you know why they pay attention to her but not him? u can't force people to pay attention to you then in this case ur job is too hard to should try to full his empty place of attention and make him belive that no matter what she has coz really happiness is not came from stuff... try ur best.
2007-02-25 22:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by admiralty_so 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for sure she is asking for all these things. I think she is telling them lies about having no money etc. Has your husband asked for anything from them. Tell him to try and ask for a loan and he will repay in time. See what their answer is and if they say no ask them howcome they can give her a flat and not him anthing. BYW who told you that THEY are giving her money did she or did they!
2007-02-25 23:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by istupidice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like his sister has learned to work her parent's pretty well. Sounds as though she can make them feel bad, guilty, unloving, or maybe they do it just to shut her up. either way it sounds like your husband is a good loving son and they don't feel they have to buy his love. Tell him to be proud of himself and tell his sister it's time to let up.
2007-02-25 11:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by beebee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how thats like, just tell him that you love him and that youre gonna be spending the rest of your life with him and that at least he has someone that loves him
you should give him all your attention, spoil him a little
there is nothing he can do to change his parents
parents are very vey stubborn to change
2007-02-18 06:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by xoxoletsplayxoxo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe your parents-in-law see that your SIL is somewhat sad and their attention to her is just so she can forget about her lonelies. for all you know your SIL is jealous of your husband's luck in finding a loving partner in you and having a happy married life. he should understand that his parents do not owe him anything and that they are in no obligation to buy him anything and he mustn't equate money to love.
2007-02-25 03:49:14 · answer #9 · answered by Tammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an injustice that happens in lots of families. Ask them why they treat their children differently tell them they are hurting your husband.
2007-02-25 03:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by holly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋