see...me and my boyfriend were way into being "intimate" and he tried to put his fingers "where they dont belong". I was weirded out
because he has never done this before.
do guys really like to do this? and if so,
where do guys get their ideas?
2007-02-18 05:38:29 · 12 answers · asked by lady_luv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys are all perverts... myself included. They want to see what they can get away with. I'm sure if you let him he'd do much worse things.
Guys get these ideas from their friends and from porn (mostly off of the internet).
2007-02-18 05:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by Ecofreako 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, they do. Oh, and "being intimate" usually suggests to the other party that their fingers may belong there. That is unles you are a tease. BTW, get married before you get into all that.
2007-02-18 13:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by reconnermom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, guys do like that and a lot of women do to. If you are uncomfortable with trying new things or are against it, then tell him. It is a normal thing for a lot of guys.
2007-02-18 13:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by tammy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys just go with the flow. He wont do it again if you didnt like it. He was hoping that you did though. He probably heard from one of his friends to try it.
2007-02-18 13:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by cotes77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're weirded out and ask him not to do it again.
Most people experiment to learn what their partner likes. You're probably too inexperienced to know that.
2007-02-18 13:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax and let the fingers do thier magic, you might like it. if not tell him never to do it again. oh ya have KY around
2007-02-18 13:42:13 · answer #6 · answered by toophatboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a discussion with him. Tell him what you're comfortable with.
2007-02-18 13:40:58 · answer #7 · answered by substance_of_desire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about in your butt? Yes, they do it. And try it. You may like it.
2007-02-18 13:41:51 · answer #8 · answered by Nette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it back to him and see if he likes it
2007-02-18 13:42:03 · answer #9 · answered by ♥live laugh love ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is 3rd base. And it is nice.
2007-02-18 13:42:36 · answer #10 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋