Ok so i broke up with my boyfriend two months ago because things weren't working out. So he has another girlfriend and im cool with that I was getting over him but now he keeps trying to contact me.. I told him I dont want anything to do with him since he hurt me so bad in the past .he keeps apologizing for what he has done begging me to talk to him but I told him I dont want anything to do with him and he said fyne wutever.. but he still keeps trying to contact me no matter how many times I tell him I hate him leave me alone it just doesnt go through his head. the last time I spoke to him I thought i made it clear that I never wanted to speak to him again. but on valentines day he wished me a happy valentines day and yesturday he instant messaged me saying he missed me as a friend but I said I dont miss you. Im confused does he just wanna torment me? be my friend? or does he still have feelings? old feelings are starting to come back to me and its making me upset.
2007-02-18 05:32:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for those who say ignore him.. I've tried that in the beginning but he still kept calling and instant messaging me saying please talk to me im sorry.. so thats why I chose to tell him I didnt want anything to do with him
2007-02-18 08:33:51 · update #1
Yes, in a way he does. He has a girlfriend and is still trying to contact you at the same time. Sounds like he wants to "Have his cake and eat it too". I would suggest you just ignore him. Do not reply to his IM's or block him. From what you have described, this is not a person you should waste your time on. His pattern of behavior will only get worse. You deserve better than how is treating you, so, hang in there and don't compromise your feelings. Good Luck.
2007-02-18 05:40:53 · answer #1 · answered by 1dayatatime 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a man.Im not a jerk. So, what i wanna explain here, the guy that u called ex is far away from true. Come on gal, she hurted you, badly,as i can see in your information,just let him suffer with his TRYNA-WIN-BACK stuff. He dont deserve to be a player. Screw him. Just let him know how bad he was till U dont want even talk to him again. A lover never hurt one's feel even when he touch ur heart! Learn that! So,my advice to keep him away from your life is, just let him gone to hell, when he call, put the phone down as soon as u hear his voice, never reply his msg, never take srious whatever he say coz u know how good he can play angel! Take ur personal time, go out with ur friends, chatting over internet, just make ur self busy.Its hard to forget but its not impossible!
2007-02-18 13:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by love_u.mydad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are idiots sometimes. He may very well have feelings for you still but he has a girlfriend. If he's not going to break up with her then you need to continue to leave him alone. Ignore him completely if you don't want him back. Act as if he doesn't exist. Stand your ground and let him know that you are not to be played with. Don't lead this poor soul on though. If you just want to be his friend then be his friend and nothing more. Good luck with this drama sweetie.
2007-02-18 15:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by diamoniquejazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he still has feelings for you. Whatever didn't work out in the past, I think it has to do with trust. I don't think he wants to torment you. I think he wants to love you, but is not very good at it. Kind of emotionally dysfunctional. Meet him for lunch one day...wear a turtle-neck sweater, and ask him what the **** do you want from me? Ask him to be honest. Hopefully he will open up to you which would be a major breakthrough for him.
2007-02-18 13:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really wanted him to leave you alone than you wouldn't answer his calls, you wouldn't respond to his IM. its obvious you still have feelings for him but they can't go beyond because of what he did to you. i think he is missing you and whatever he did the guilt is kicking in and he's feeling bad. if you feel that you truly want him to leave you alone, that you are better off not talking to him than cut all ties.
2007-02-18 13:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by Blake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he still has feelings or does want to be ur friend. Mayb he is just a phsyco. try talk to him. it's the polite thing to do and thats the only way he'll leave you alone. good luck.
2007-02-18 13:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by divaL 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm not sure what his intentions are.. but i think u should stop trying to tell him that u don't want to have anything to do with him.. just ignore him, don't answer his calls, don't take his messages.. basically, just delete him from ur life asap...
2007-02-18 13:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by cutie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look in the pass and see why yall broke up and also see is it worth getting back together with him...but it sounds like he still got feelings 4 u...just follow yo heart and if it mean t b then maybe yall should get back together...hope this helps
2007-02-18 13:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by pain&pleasure 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Baby doll. You never go back. Just keep it moving !
2007-02-18 13:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by RJ2K1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL I THINK YOU SHOULD JUST LISTEN TO WHAT HE HAS TO SAY AND YOU GO FROM THEIR. MAYBE HE STILL HAS FEELINGS, MAYBE HES JUST TRYING TO MAKE PEACE. WHO KNOW JUST TRY TO HEAR HIM OUT.
2007-02-18 13:42:11 · answer #10 · answered by jay3tweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋