This guy and I had a thing going for bout 7months.that's alot of sexual tension. slept together but He had a hard time rising to the occasion & I wasn't to sure how to handle it, that's never happened before & we were both sober When we finally did have sex he lasted like a min. & was really embarrassed. I'd never seen him act vulnerable before & he said "he was sorry it was disappointing for our first time.." i didn't know what to say and told him he was really good at other things...then quickly corrected myself & said "everything" & told him there would be other times...we did it again that night & it was good but i slipped "go slow...if u can.." my bad. I only said that cuz he didn't feel completely hard & i didn't want him to loose it & be more embarrassed. He didn't wait to seconds after we were done before saying that "he needed to improve his performance" i tired calling but he wont answer.i havn't called in a week, im wondering did he use me or is he embaressed? wut shod i do?
2007-02-18 05:29:14 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's probably kind of embarrassed...give him a couple days and if he deosn't call you back try calling again and see what happens...
7 months is a long time to try to get one thing out of a girl...so i doubt he was using you for that...
2007-02-18 05:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it must be that he became into only incredibly frightened and as a result he had a stressful time "growing to be to the social gathering" yet because of the fact he made reference on your "first time" it makes it sound like he theory there could be greater. I doubt he became into utilising you in case you have been 7 months into it so i'm advantageous he's only embarrassed. in case you quite dig this guy, you're able to do each little thing on your ability to help him experience greater valuable approximately his overall performance, and if he's sturdy at different issues, and you're happy together with his lacking in that particular section, then by ability of all ability, get that boy lower back!
2016-11-23 16:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by shake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think is the worse thing to say to a guy when your in bed naked and he got in a hurry and camee a little to fast? Wow well your good at other things. Well think why he doesn't want to tlak to you, hell he is embarrassed and feel like **** right now. WOW that was cruel. You should ahve said hey don't worry.
2007-02-18 05:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's embaressed. But you have nothing to feel bad about. You both should be able to talk about sex freely how else will you both know what each other likes. If you can't talk about sex with each other you shouldn't be having it.
2007-02-18 05:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by mia w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this thing took 7 mths to do, he was probably nervous. then it happens again he was nervous again, it happens. you did nothing wrong by telling him to slow down, he needs to enjoy it not get it over w/ let him be the baby about it. he was embarrased might take some time for him to get over it.
2007-02-18 05:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by toophatboy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, please use spell check because school let you down.
Next, he's most likely embarrassed...whether he "used" you or not (it's unlikely though as you'd been dating 7 months). Give time for his bruised ego to heal, and then y'all can talk about this. COMMUNICATION is the key...if you are close enough to be having sex, you should be close enough to talk about sex.
2007-02-18 05:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to come back when he knows how to please a woman in bed.
Men dont like to be told what to do in bed at any age..You did him a favor by telling him.
Most women wouldnt say anything and tell all their girlfriends what a lousey lover he is.
2007-02-18 05:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by Grogan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a turn off. he likes you but he's mentally offended by you some how and it's affecting his weiner action. do you have a smelly hootie cooch or do you have a butt stank? that will make a wood into putty.
2007-02-18 05:34:27 · answer #8 · answered by edna b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he MIGHT be embarrassed but he at the same time he MIGHT have used YOU
2007-02-18 05:40:21 · answer #9 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
him - He's embarrased.
you - Use spellcheck.
2007-02-18 05:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋