You both feel a mutual attraction, meet and get to know each other and the guy decides that you're not what he's looking for. When he decides to move on, why does the girl usually still want this guy who could care less about her? If and when this happens to us guys, most (and I did say most) of us can move on. Whats the deal with so many girls and women always saying, "How do I get over him?" Do you ever stop to think that you could be missing out on meeting *Mr Right* because you're still crying over *Mr. Wrong- for-you-in-all-kinds-of-ways*?
2007-02-18 05:20:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey crzynluv, I didn't say ALL girls and women. And, to answer you directly and speaking for me, ONLY...I don't do that, never have. I'm wiling to bet that most guys...and I always use the term MOST guys are in the same boat as me and MOST girls and women are the same. It's just the different way we're wired about "matters of the heart". Guys are just different. You have to accept that as truth and not kill the messenger.
2007-02-18 06:05:19 · update #1
The women who do this are so desperate for a relationship that they'll take whatever is in closest proximity to them.
2007-02-18 05:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are correct in saying "you could be missing out on meeting Mr. Right because you're still crying over Mr. Wrong for you in all kinds of ways" That is so true and many of us have made that mistake; however, what I do disagree with you on is the fact that men are just as guilty of this behavior. I believe that many people fall for someone under false pretenses. Sometimes they fall in love with the idea of love or the fairy tale. Admit it, when you meet someone who really grabs your attention, deep down you hope and pray that maybe this is 'the one'. When it doesn't work out you have a hard time letting go of the hope and dream that he/she was 'the one'; And then you have to go back out there and start all over again in the search. It really isn't about the person but about the idea of 'the one'. Admit it men....you are just as let down as us women.
2007-02-18 13:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by crzynluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it really has nothing to do with caring about the person. It is the fact that they left. No one likes to be left. You always want you can't have, ya know?
2007-02-18 13:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by krissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋