While on vacation I met a woman, she wants to come visit me already?

Question

My problem is I really like her and I think that she sees me as a way to get out of her country, how can i ask her if that is her intentions without hurting her or our chance at a relationship?

Answer 1

She loves america, not you, dude.

Answer 2

Wow that is trickky, and could be potentially dangerous.You need to ask yourself how much do I really know her?

You need to decide if this is something you want to get yourself into becasue she could be a conartist, she could b married, you really dont know. My advise is to kep it at along distance relationship for a while and then maybe after a few months if the interest is still there from her side then maybe you think about going back to where she is from and really making sure she is still the same as you left her, then you make a decision, but in the mean time please dont send her money or allow her to take advantage of u, tell her point blank no she cannot come visit you

Answer 3

Tell her you'd like to get to know her better through e-mail, phone calls, or however you two communicate first. Maybe tell her you want her to visit when you can take the time off work to show her a good time and spend time with her, and the two of you will have to wait until (insert your date here) for that. Giving her an actual date several months in the future would show her you intend to pursue a reltationship with her, but would give the two of you time to get to know each other a little better.

Answer 4

If you like her, let her visit. You don't need to ask that big question until you see how the visit turns out.

Answer 5

Chances are even if she likes you too, you are also a way out of her country and current living conditions. Proceed with caution, if your proceed at all.

Answer 6

If she is willing to come on her own dollars then I don't see the problem. Sounds like an Asian gal.