She is jealous of me and my home and family. She is jealous of my mother-in-law. And she is the same way with my sister's in-laws too.
My mother gets mad at me and acts like a child (ignors me for a week) if I don't bend over backwards to please her.
2007-02-18 05:10:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Kiddo, listen. Why the heck are you bending over backwards to please her when you have a home and a family? Your mother is a problem that will only get worse with time. You are going to have to "train" her like you would a dog or a pet or a child! Don't be bothers when she ignores you for a week!! Find something else to do or change your daily habits. Don't let her leavce an empty space for you to miss her because she is heckling and depressing you. It IS OK for you to concentrate on your family. Period.
That umbilical cord that joined you at birth was cut but the one in both your heads is as strong as iron. CUT THE CORD!! With luck, your mother will learn to treat you with respect as she would any other adult (I Hope) and until then, get along with your in-laws because they sound healthier and much more productive than your mother.
Your mother is pulling your strings and it works or she wouldn't do it. She can wreck your life. Right now your home and family need your attention and you need to get that Emotional umbilical cord between you and your manipulating mother CUT!!! CLEAR THROUGH! She will try it all, even pretending heart attacks and all other assorted games to keep your attention. I would hate to be where you are right now because I remember how hard it is to break away!! Good Luck!! @8-)
2007-02-18 05:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by Dovey 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
One day take her to lunch, and have a talk with her, tell her Mom I love you but the games that you play has to stop, they are childish, and it is time for us to enjoy being together, because life is too short. Please lets just try and get on better. what do you say about that? If she agrees fine, if she goes back to her same old ways, then you do not have to worry anymore. You have enough on your plate, and I am sure you do not have the time, sitting around waiting for her to get her act together. Now you have to put it out of your mind, and realize that you tried.
2007-02-18 05:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The way I deal with both jealous mothers (mine and my husband's) is to not speak to them in return. JUST cause they gave birth to you doesn't mean they have the right to control you. If she wants to not talk to you, then give her her space. She's missing out, not you.
Best wishes!!
2007-02-18 06:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk to your mother and ask her to get along with them ...u arnt sure if shes jelous are you ...if yes tell her that this is ure future and ure family in danger and tell her to stop she has nothing to be jelous about because she is the model mother a girl can have ..even though its not true ...
2007-02-18 05:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by smileyandshiney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She feels you took her son away from her. You don't have to be friends. Move far away so she won't come to you.
2015-09-17 14:42:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋