is it bad too....?

Question

have a boyfriend, but like someone else while your going out, im so confused and i dont know what to do! any advice! help me pleeaasseeee ://

Answer 1

It's not fair to your boyfriend if you like someone else. That means he's not getting the respect and love he needs from you. The one you don't choose will probably be hurt no matter what.

But, the guy you're not going out with...
does he know you exist?
Does he know you like him?
Does he like you too?

If you said yes to all 3 of those then it will probably be hard, but you're going to have to figure out which guy you want.

Which one:
...Do you have more fun with?
...More in common with?
...More of the same goals and life ambitions?
...Do you feel more like yourself with?
...Makes you feel like the luckiest girl in the world?
...Spoils the crap out of you and treats you with respect?
...Do you like more?

I know it's tough, but it would make life easier if you just chose one. That way you won't cheat on one or hurt one's feelings or break one's heart. Good luck and I know you'll make the best choice!

Answer 2

Yes. It is not fair to your boyfriend to just keep him so you won't be alone because you are not sure that this other person would want to be with you or not. You need to get out of your present relationship and stand back and look things over and make a rational decision about where you want to be at this time of your life.

Answer 3

If you are in a committed relationship with someone and your thoughts are with another, I'd say re-evaluate the feelings you think you have for your boyfriend. It is wrong to mislead someone, feelings are not to be played with. If you are seriously having feelings for someone else, I think you need to be single and explore other options.

Answer 4

I'm not sure...

But last year (June) I broke up w/ my bf b/c I liked someone else (2 much guilt) and then i stopped liking the other guy... and I still like my EX and i still regret it... I am half over him... and now he hates me or despises me or something.... I kinda secretly want him back... but... don't make the same mistake I did unless you don't like ur bf, and you really really like this other guy.... be sure

I hope I helped!

Answer 5

That should be "to" (not too) and sometimes we meet people we like when we are dating. You need to ask yourself what level that attraction is on....is it just superficial or is it deeper? If you really like him inside and out, then the question to ponder is do you really like your bf all that much? If so, you likely wouldn't be attracted to someone else.

Answer 6

No, its no "bad". Be honest with yourself and with your current boyfriend. It will hurt him more in the long run if you wait, or if you cheat on him. Most importantly, make sure you make your feelings for this other boy known before your chance is gone!!

Answer 7

That depends on how well you like this other person. Is it attraction or do you have deep emotional feelings for him? If it's just attraction, that is normal. Just because we have a significant other doesn't mean we don't see and lust after the opposite sex.

Answer 8

i guess my advice to you would be that life is too short for you to waste your time, or anyone elses... just make sure you realize that the grass isnt always greener on the other side, and you may not get what you want... good luck to you !

Answer 9

Dont be a hoodrat! Stick with one guy, but if u dont like ur bf and like da other guy, dump your bf then go out with the other guy, but then he may not like you, so then you will lose at the end.

Answer 10

a little bit, if the guy who you like but aren't dating tells you he'd go out with you and you know he's better, dump your man