she broke up with me over 2 weeks ago. found it hard but was coping- anyhow went out fri night with my mates and guess who i bumped into. She was all alone as her mates had buggered off and left her. got to say we were both quite drunk.
I cut my night out short to walk her home. along the way I asked her why hasnt she been missing me (as i met her a few days before and she said she was fine and happier without me)
anyway she actually told me it was a front- that she's been crying herself to sleep everynight and really misses me.
along the way home I asked her why she doesnt want to be with me and why doesnt she like me. we ended up kissing un all that and she came back to mine. Anyhow found out by looking on her fone that she has been seeing someone already. asked her bout it and she said she likes him, and she's only kissed him.
i just cant believe she would brak up with me-then play me by messing with my head. I havent contacted her since, though i cant get her out my head HELP
2007-02-18 04:40:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
though even though I know she is seeing someone else- and it hurts so much to know this and wonder what the hell she is donig with him, and whether he is huggin her or takin her out.
It sounds stupid but i want her back. towards the end I wasnt treating her as I should of- i was going through a very hard time and was very down, and I sorta took it out on her by not showing i loved her or anything.
So i know its my fault she is gone, though even though I said id change she still wont take me back. my family and friends say dont contact her leave her.
But i do still have feelings for her and I want her back.
I realised she was the best thing in my life and it kills knowing she likes someone else. though is this a re-bound bloke? meen we were together 2 years and then after we split up. 5 days later she is seeing someone else.
I really dont know what to do- i try to keep busy yet i keep thinking of her and how much i want her back. and it aint healthy for me or my family
2007-02-18 08:07:54 · update #1
it's obvious that you still like her. And no madder what for a while you will feel a little stab of jealiousy when she dates other guys. But you can't really blame her, you guys were both drunk and she might still have feelings for you but that doesn't mean shes going to come running back to you. Don't be mad at her, and don't try to avoid her. Hang out with her and show her that you're okay with everything, this will make her more attracted to you b/c you're showing her that you're mature. She might just want some time away from you and some space, and she's just going to end up moving along faster if you shut her out of your life. < if that makes any sense at all
2007-02-18 05:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a nice guy, but you know what she has gotten over you obviuosly. or maybe not toherwise she wouldnt keep messing with you. The reason why you can't her out of her is because you care for her still. I think the best way to do is just to tell her how you feel. All you need is closure, and you telling her how you feel will you end the thoughts of her! GOOD LUCK!-
2007-02-18 04:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by VEROMEX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy is more than happy to be friends with a woman who he hasnt dated and wont be dating but it is odd in my opinion for anyone to be "friends" with someone who they used to date or be married with. I know that some people do it but it isnt the norm and I know I couldnt do it assuming it was a serious relationship. If it is some month or two type thing that just didnt feel right, that is a bit different but serious relationships end for a reason, and if you are still close enough to be friends then you should still be together.
2016-05-24 02:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look. I'm going through the same. I broke up w/ my ex and he won't talk to me, and tryin to make me jealous. 4get ur ex. She wants 2 men, and can only have 1. So either make her choose or leave. She was dumb enough 2 leave you so don't act like you want her back. They say the best revenge is leading a good life. Just act like your over her and if she tries to some back then say NO!!!! She lost her chance. SHE broke up with you. If anything, YOU should want HER back. Leave her alone. She was even seeing some one else. So show her you can live with out her!
Hope you suceed!!!!!!!! :)
2007-02-18 04:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by кιяѕтү ;; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man you prolly like her ,but she don`t she is confuse remenber she prolly left you for that guy she is just feelig lonely if she goes out with you is cause there is nobody else believe me I have been in the same situation as you are ok good luck
2007-02-18 04:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by sinner so what ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that your mind doesn't control you - you control your mind. Do activities that make you think of other things... do things for yourself, things you like to do. Letting go is essential to opening yourself up to better opportunities. Clear out the old and make room for the new. There are many, many, many other girls out there. Hope this helps.
2007-02-18 04:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by Celestite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember this: she is your EX. Focus on the sh*tty things she's done to you, and all the things you dislike about her instead of the good things. That'll soon put you off. People usually can't get over previous relationships because they keep going over it in their mind, and usually only the good bits.
2007-02-18 04:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by Minky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has only been two weeks so you are going to still miss her. Time will stop this and going out to meet others will help.
2007-02-18 04:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you keep your mind open there is always a possibility!
2007-02-18 05:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by Halomot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz u still like her
2007-02-18 04:43:33 · answer #10 · answered by Brown Power 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋