Well, I'm in high school, and I like my female friend (not thaaat close). I'm not sure if she likes me, but many of the signs are there. Last week I asked her if she wanted to go to the movies with me (I made it sound like I was asking her to go as friends, but that shouldn't matter, right?). Anyway, she said she couldn't go that weekend because of some dance competition. She does dance, and I think (and hope) she was telling the truth. Now, how does this sound? What if I tell her next week that I couldn't go to the movies last weekend (and give her some believeable, and possible humerous) excuse, and then say something like I hope to go next weekend, but I still need somebody to go with. If she really does like me, do you think she'll offer?
2007-02-18 04:33:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES, and "Right On!" Go that way about it that you suggested! The GAL should offer!!!
2007-02-18 04:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're thinking too hard.
You don't need to offer her an excuse why you didn't or couldn't go to the movies the previous weekend when she already turned you down (for whatever reason, but it sounds like she was being honest). That's just silly. Why should she care, and why should you volunteer the information?
If she were as interested as you are, she would have said, "I can't go this weekend, but could go next weekend instead."
So she's not as interested as you are.
Play it cool for now, and wait a few weeks before you ask her to do anything again.
2007-02-18 12:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you are thinking about this a little much. no, don't tell her that about how You couldn't go to the movies with some excuse. and if you say that she might not realize what you are doing and it could lead to a lot of confusion. just ask her to go again... ask how her dance competition went (if you haven't already).. and then just ask her out again to the point... say hey since we didn't get to go see that movie last weekend i'd love to take you to it this weekend if you'd still like to see it..? or something to that effect. just ask her out again. and when on your date pay for the movie, and then afterwards ask if she wants to go get ice cream or something. or call her before and ask if she'd like to go get dinner first. this is pretty much a big signal that it's more than just a movie as friends and has turned into a date. or you could just simply ask would you like to _____... as a date? or you could just say: would you like to go on a date with me? and then tell her what you're going to do later on the phone or something. and try to do it in private as you are alone with her too, so that you will get a more honest opinion from it. good luck and Best wishes to ya!! :) hope you have a date this weekend! ;)
2007-02-18 12:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might, us girls are just trying to have a good time. before you make a move think about her past, make sure that shes not getting over someone else!!!
2007-02-18 12:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by chocolate_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are trying to hard.
Just ask her out officially... love/like with all your heart... you get the worst pain, but the best rewards... experience
2007-02-18 12:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by Moosic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋