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Question

Ok i just got in this relationship with this boy and i really liked him and stuff. But then i heard some stuff about him and then i was like i dont know if i still want to talk to him or not. So i started to avoid him and then i realized i couldnt really stop liking him at the time. And i really still like him....i talk about him all day...so i started to call him and no one didnt answer....so im thinking that maybe hes just not home but then my friend called and told him how i felt and he told her the story of how people was just lieing to me about that stuff but then my friend told me some stuff and you are gonna trust your friend so i believed her....but i really liked him though....So now im calling him and stuff and hes avoided me now and im really feeling bad about it now...cuz now i see how he felt when i was avoiding him...and it really hurts....but now i have to look in his face everyday. and i really like him. but its my fault we are not together so...i just need your advice.

Answer 1

Get all the BS you heard about him out of the way now! You need to talk to him about what people have been saying and give him a chance to explain it and explain yourself for acting funny with him. Also kids will say and do things b/c they are jealous and don't like to see people happy. Well, adults do the same thing too but you need to be mature and use good judgment and learn to see who you're real friends are and aren't.
If you like the guy, like him and be friends or go steady or whatever you call it. And if he don't talk to you anymore, move on and get another one day. You're young and you will be fine.