What to do when she likes you but doesnt want to be in a relationship?

Question

I like this girl, and she likes me.
but she doesn't know what she wants.

she doesnt think our relationship would work out if we were boyfriend and girlfriend.

we have hung out before, kissed, hugged, cuddled, etc.

but when i talk to her about what she wants, she says she doesnt wanna be friends who just do the couple thing without being in a relationship. but she doesnt know if she wants a relationship.

i told her to take her time and that i would wait around for her.
but she said she doesnt want to waste my time...

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i don't wanna give up cause i know we have something....
she said she likes me and that we click.

Answer 1

give her time. if it's meant to be it will be.

Answer 2

My friend sounds like this girl, she has a self-proclaimed fear of commitment. Basically, she obviously likes you (otherwise like you said you wouldn't have kissed etc) but perhaps she doesn't feel ready for a relationship yet. It must be really annoying for you because you like her and you know what you want but I guess you need to let her decide. If she starts to mess you around and say, you discover she likes other guys too then perhaps she isn't the right one for you.

Answer 3

Sounds good I just had to put this to my answer section to see what actions or advice you get.
Just started a third month with a person 'so experancing the same. She doesn't smoke Iam trying to quit this year or go work-out! bye for now

Answer 4

hmmm well if she won't try what can ya do?
if your willing to waite fine, but sounds to me like she isn't really interested, or at least is not mature enough for a lasting realtionship. In either which case your heading for dissaster if you push the issue...Lets

Answer 5

When she says she wants to be just friends that is is exactly her intentions.
So treat her as a nice freind, go out to party's and have fun and don;t push the issue any further.
Time will mend!!

Answer 6

Here's the thing..... then she really doesn't like you enough.... play hard to get. Tell her you like someone else and ask for her advice. If she really likes you it will drive her bonkers! You have to be willing to keep up the act for at least a month... then see what happens.

Answer 7

I am writing this comment just to say that I disagree with Jessica R and that I don't think to lie her (even just to get her attention;love or anything) is a good idea.to lie her may have terrible consequences.

Answer 8

play the field she will prolly want you again.. if not o well, at least you will have your field players