me and this guy have known eachother for about a year we love each other alot ateast he say's he does and say's he wants to be with me and i want him too but he lives a few states over from me and it seems like he wants to be with me but not til im live closer which wont be for 4 months i think if you really want me be with me now and deal with not being close for a few months or you really dont care if i find someone else..should i wait or just forget him?
2007-02-18 04:02:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget him and move on................
2007-02-18 04:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by justme 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would move on. Anyone that makes you feel bad after only one year, and a few states over, will have a history of making you feel bad. How can you feel anything for a person that is not willing to make you feel secure or happy, wether you live next door or across the country? It sounds like he is giving you an ultimatum, and he is not going to be happy until you do what he wants. Not a good foundation for a solid relationship, dont you agree?
2007-02-18 12:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by keithzgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you even take a breath when you wrote that? I can hear you saying this in my mind and I'm dizzy.
If you really love him, wait. If you want to move on, move on. It's difficult living a few states away.
2007-02-18 12:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited for my girl for two years and in the end she end up with a criminal I would not wait but hey if there is love why not anyways is just 4 months just becarefull
2007-02-18 12:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by sinner so what ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how much you really love him...why wait until you are closer. Start building your bond now.
2007-02-18 12:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋