I finally worked up enough courage to ask her out, and then she says that she wants me to bulk up because i am 6'6 175 in 9th grade, and everyone says im really skinny. I dumped her on a couple of peoples input, and no i feel like a jerk. In high school it seems like if you dont have a girlfriend, you're a nerd. I've been like that for 15 years, and now ive runied my chance ithin 30 minutes of getting it. now that ive go courage, should i ask this other girl out? she's really popular, so i dont think she'd say yes, but im afraid to get called skinny again. oh btw im a lefty pitcher for all you baseball nuts out there. thanks for any help.
2007-02-18 03:41:46 · 6 answers · asked by Chad Parries 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what did you dump her for? your friends input? no! the girl was just saying you need to get some meat on your bones. we girls are as vain as they come and if you took that as a personal insult, well you're silly! she liked you or wouldn't have gone out with you. you dumped her because someone else told you to. you can ask her out but i think she might be brutal with you. don't go on what everybody else says-you've liked this girl a long time and it'd be a shame to ruin what you can have because someone else thought what she said was mean. how do you feel about it? ask, that's all you can do, and all you can hear is what she's got to tell you. best of luck, baseball boy! i hope you get another inning with this girl! =)
2007-02-18 03:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by green eyed sole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your in the 9th grade. There is so much time left of high school by next year you wont care what people really think of you as well as your junior and senior year. Just be yourself and have confidence in yourself because when you have confidence people look at you differantly. If this girl says no then don't worry about it.
2007-02-18 04:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am proud of you for standing up to someone who obviously does not care about the real you. It sounds to me like all she is thinking about is what other people will say about HER when they see the two of you together. And you don't need that. High school sucks that way...a lot of people care about what you look like and how you make them look...not about who you really are. I wish I could make high school easier for you but I can't. Just keep your mind and your heart open to new experiences with other girls...girls who will actually be interested in you, and support you. And then you get to do the same. :) I wish you the best!
2007-02-18 03:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by january202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then do you need to bypass to the flicks with him in any respect? If he's basically going to attempt entering into your pants, and he has a gf already, then i'd imagine this may basically make issues more beneficial complicated.
2016-12-04 08:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude...y r u so bummed out about being skinny??/ u dnt need to be top jock to feel good....just ask the girl out and if she says yes then thats good....if she calls u skinny then just ignore it....ur play baseball so i wldnt think ur dat skinny, if ur skinny then its probably cuz ur active....u play baseball so u probably run a lot so u keep fit.....
2007-02-18 03:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by booyah218"the people" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are not all alike in this world! Some are skinny some are heavy, people should like your for what you are.
2007-02-18 03:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by ladynamedjane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋