iv said it to her and she's really keen but i dont know. What should i do?
2007-02-18 03:38:42 · 38 answers · asked by stacey f 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make it a foursome with his best friend and dare them to perform fellatio on one another.
2007-02-18 03:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by Col. Forbin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, surely you can't love a guy that much? to the point where you don't exist? where he decides for you what's moral or not? what's right or wrong?
If that's the case, then maybe that experience will open up your eyes.
Do you think that this guy actually loves you?
Is it the type of relationship that you envisaged? Or is it not to lose the guy that you are ready to do such a thing.
Don't get me wrong, if you are fine with such a thing, then you surely don't need to ask permission, specially if you're an adult.
But if it was never in your plans, then jilt the guy, because there's no way he loves you.
Wake up before it's too late!
2007-02-18 04:21:48 · answer #2 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel, but remember, there are risks.
1. Check everyone STD record
2. Are you emotionally prepare to see you man with someone else? Do you know what to do if he is spending more time with her during the session?
3. Have you talked to him and tell him your expectations? What are the boundaries? If this pops off, is he allowed to see her by himself? This things must be discussed to alleviate any misunderstanding.
4. Is he allowed to go in bareback with her, then in you? This sounds crazy, but that question has caused a lot of threesomes to not take place.
5. When he is with her, what is your position? What do you expect him to do. Are you just sitting there watching? Are you touching him or her? What is her feeling on this?
Threesomes require communication to get the full benefits. Although they are fun, there is still some respect factors to consider.
Have fun!
2007-02-18 03:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by Michael b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's think about this rationally for a moment, hmmm....
Your boyfriend wants to have a threesome w/you and your best friend. How would you ever be able to trust him again? In the back of your mind, you will always wonder if he's seeing her behind your back.
It's never a good idea to do anything against your conscience, you are already uncomfortable with the idea of it. The two of them are too interested in doing this. Maybe you should re-evaluate if you should even be with your boyfriend and whether your best friend is really a friend at all.
2007-02-18 03:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by moe497 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. This may ruin your friendship and relationship. Is it really worth it? That depends on you. There is nothing wrong with 3somes, but you have to trust your partner. If no jealousy, no repeat, no talk of it to others occurs, then go for it. It's really fun and I recommend everyone do it at least once. Also remember that just b/c he asked, doesn't mean you have to say yes.
2007-02-18 03:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it looks like he fancies your friend, be careful as you may loose him to her! dont do it. What kind of friend is she to want to do it with you bf, not a good one! You may find that you get left out of the 3some and end up having to watch!
2007-02-19 00:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by poodle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even go down that road !, if you want a serious relationship then this is not the way to go !!, he's just thinking about himself and not the consequences of what it all might mean ?.
Your relationship will never be the same and neither will your friendship with your best friend ??.
2007-02-18 03:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by Richard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stacey, value yourself don't let this man sleep with you and your best friend. It might seem really fun and exciting. But trust me, after the experience you will feel dirty and used. And the fella will be bragging about his latest conquest to all his mates and your reputation will be tarnished.
My advice is to really dump the nymphomaniac and search for a Gentlemen. There is not many about... but they are out there.
Good luck.
2007-02-18 04:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by Richie G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stacey
This is a no no - you boy friend is obviously keen on your best friend purely for sexual gratification. You best-friend is trying to get one up on you. It might seem like an exciting thought know but trust me after the event you will not be able to trust your so called boy friend again nor your apparent best friend, worst of all you will doubt yourself.
If he persists... dump him !!!!!!!
2007-02-18 03:44:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HA. sry, thats just a really interesting relationship problem to have.
well if youre cool with doing stuff with another girl involved i guess thats fine. but i would be careful. the fact that he asked means hes at least physically attracted to your friend. if you do go through with this, you should make sure that he is ONLY physically attracted to her, and not emotionally. if you do this for him, you dont want to lose him in the process.
personally i wouldnt do it though, its kind of sketchy.
2007-02-18 03:43:48 · answer #10 · answered by midnightsnacker13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So being the caring sharing guy he is, he talked about this at length with you, he took in to consideration your thoughts, your feelings and even made your decision for you.
Being the attentive caring person you are, you just ignored your beliefs, values and wishes and went and asked your friend.
If you dont know what to do, then dont do it. Try shagging his mate first to see how you and he likes it.
2007-02-18 03:55:20 · answer #11 · answered by simon m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋