How do you get over a Guy?

Question

I liked this boy on and off for a LONG time....
And i dont want to like him anymore because i always get disappointed.
How do i get over him?

Answer 1

By moving on and making yourself more important.

There's allot more to life than guys, especially those who repeatedly disappoint. If you keep going back, then you're only asking for more of the same.

Find your splendor in the "other" things you enjoy. Stay busy with good friends, and school, and whatever you like to do. Before you know it, you'll have grown past this guy and will being asking yourself why you waited so long to move on.

Answer 2

Just do it the same way the guy got over you. Find something more important to do with your time instead of thinking about a boy who's been able to move on without you.

Answer 3

Try several different things. Start taking care of yourself and treating yourself: pedicures, walks alone, treating yourself to a movie or dinner and just enjoy your youth and being single. Try having friends set you up on a few mini dates so that you start to meet other guys and see what's out there. Tell yourself this guy wasn't worth much, because he's confusing and disappoint you, which is never a way for a lady/girl to be treated. Try to cut all contact with him, so you can stay focused on you and having fun.

Answer 4

Two weeks in a Swiss sanitorium usually does the trick.

Otherwise, try having two cold showers a day for the next month, or take a contract out on the monster.

Answer 5

Everyone is different but time is the only healer and moving on makes it easier for time to heal. Keep busy and hang out with friends. It's hard because I have been there. But I moved on.

Answer 6

its not easy

but no one can help you, focus on your life, seek your happiness and ask urself do u wanna spend the rest of ur life getting disappointed over and over again,

if that is not the type of life you are seeking, then you will understand that he shouldnt matter anymore,

All the best,

Answer 7

Stay away from the guy! You go and find some one else to occupy your time.

Answer 8

it 's the same way we get over girls, we just have to find someone else. keep your mind on other things. get a hobbie, talk to friends, get a new b/f. stuff like that.

Answer 9

Try to forget about him. I know it's hard, trust me from experience. Try to find some other guy who's better for you.

Answer 10

stop seeing him, distance yourself, go out with new people, and don't have any expectations about the boy, love is not suppose to hurt u, if it does it isn't love.