Yall, help me out on this?

Question

Ok, mi mom and dad love each other to death, but sometimes they don't show it by the lilttle things that they do. They sit and argue for hours and don't reture the phone calls and staying out late(that's a biggy). Sometimes, when mi mom is fed up with how mi dad act, she threatens to leave. Many of time they have but they always come back. They fight right in front of me and mi brother and sometimes I can't handle it. I have no really close friends in mi area that I can come to, so I would cry in mi room. I love mi parents and I don't know how life would be without one of them around. So what can I do to make them stop fighting? I try to come to mi mom, and everytime I bring up that subject, she cry and I don't like to see her that way. Mi dad sometimes say don't worry about it and that it will get better, and it never do. Help me out yall, please. Any advice will help

Answer 1

my mum and her boyfriend are the exact same way. i am in the same situation as you, all you can do is try and talk about it. no one likes to see their parents cry. do you have no friends in school cause if you do you can talk to them. or perhaps talk to some family members, or a guidance teacher at school. please don't keep it bottled up cause it'll just make you more upset and stressed out. please.

Answer 2

Honey, this is not something your mom and dad should put you and your bro through and I'm sure they don't mean to! But sometimes adults do stuff and forget that you kiddos are going to see it and worry about what's going on. I'm sorry you don't have anybody to talk to about this-you should confide in a good friend-someone you trust or maybe a school counselor or someone from church? Your parents sound like they are really trying to work on things but moms and dads aren't always perfect and they might stress over stuff. You might even see about talking to a counselor about family counseling because it's obvious that your 'rents are putting some you kids through some scares and you should all talk about how that affects you. I hope that things get better for you, sweetheart. You'll be in my prayers!

Answer 3

Your parents should never argue in front of the children. Adults argue sometimes, but this is too much. Since you've tried to talk to your mom, and it didn't work, maybe you should write a letter to both your mom and your dad. Tell them how sad and terrible it makes you feel when they argue in front of you. Ask them to please get help with a marriage counselor. Let them know you love them and worry about their relationship. If this doesn't work then I would suggest for you to talk to a school counselor, priest or trusted adult friend that will intervene on your behalf. If a school counselor, priest or adult calls them to talk about how their arguments are affecting you, then they may take this seriously. I think they're too close to the problem to realize how much it affects people around them. You're a caring daughter and too young to deal with such adult problems. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Well its very hard to keep a relationship going. It takes alot of work especially when you have kids, money problems, working, taking care of the household. Its very stressful and some couples can't take the pressure. I think what your parents need is to take a weekend just fro themselves, get a babysitter or someone to check in on the kids and go somewhere together. Even if its just a hotel for the weekend. Get some time together without all the family and working pressures. It would probably help them out alot.

Answer 5

Sit down with your parents & suggest they go to a marriage counselor especially because of how it's affecting your brother & you.Those are two great reasons for them to get the help they surely need. They have created a very chaotic environement & they need professional help. If one or the other refuses to go for help, then they must not want things to get better & that would be a resl shame. Hang in there & I hope your home becomes a happy home real soon.

Answer 6

First of all, I'm sorry about your parents. Second of all, there is nothing you can do to make them "stop" fighting. Its healthy for all relationships to have disagreements. But its not the best thing to be fighting all the time, day & night. Your just a kid, & you can't do anything really to, again, "stop" your parents from fighting. But I suggest you bringing up to them that they see a councilour (spelling - sorry). My parents went through something like this, but not as bad, they saw a councilour & everything is *perfect* now. Good luck & I hope everything works out.

Answer 7

Write each of them a seperate letter stating how you feel and what you don't like...Be sure you tell them what you and your brother want out them as parents. This could help or not. I'm so sorry that you are going through this...Again a letter is a great way to really express how you feel!!!

Answer 8

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Answer 9

dont feel left out more than half of the world is going through this. have a family conference at the dinner table with both of them to find out what they don't like about each other and what can they do to stop arguing face to face.

Answer 10

Maybe it's better for them to be apart. It's not a good environment you to live in with all this drama. Are you old enough to move out on your own?