i've been living with this girl (i'm a guy) for half a year or so now and we've had our ups and downs in terms of our friendship. lately we've been very affectionate with each other and weve changed our status to "dating" (not sure if exclusively, she's very vague) even though it seems as though i've gotten to know her pretty well. however it seems as though she's been getting alot of attention from several guys (who are her friends, but i sense their interest in her. i guess she has not made our status known publicly), but i'm alittle worried to ask about them for fear she may sense jealousy, or neediness, or just invading her space. this is kind of an awkward situation to begin with, but now i'm really confused if she's interested in others or if its just friendship or what? confusing!
2007-02-18 02:51:38 · 5 answers · asked by adsfsd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is something you will have to discuss with her, and should. You don't have to bring up the specific guys but just talk to her about clarifying the situation between the two of you and if you are both agreeable to dating others or want to keep things monogamous.
If you would rather you and she date exclusively then you need to make this known to her. She may or may not agree.
2007-02-18 02:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have seem to get a couple good answer's already...You DO NOT need to ask about the other guys for sure...Just clairfy with her where you two stand for communication purposes and also so know makes any mistakes that they will regret...Who knows she may feel the same way you do right now and might be asking a friend for advise...One more thing if she is getting attention from other men so be it...that just means she is good hearted and beautiful. Good Luck
2007-02-18 11:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by esmccann2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that she is not making her status known to the other guys then she might not be as into you as you are into her so I would just not get too deep with your feelings with her.
2007-02-18 10:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by wtm73199 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her about it if ur dating u need to talk to each other! she might just be very attractive and a very nice person u cant help that if other people are attracted to her.
2007-02-18 10:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by girls just wanna have fun! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should try talking this out with her if your feeling very confused. as much as you don't want to but it the only logical way to get an answer.......
2007-02-18 10:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋