I am 14 and will be entering High School this year. Sometimes I feel sad about it because I think that I am scared to grow up and I don't know why. I have never had a boyfriend and I am pretty shy but I just don't feel ready....is that normal for my age? Sometimes I think that I am not acting like my age because I like hanging out with my parents. But I do also love hanging out with my friends. I don't know why I feel this way. Is it just High School jitters? Who had their first boyfriend in High School (not in middle school)? Whenever I do think about when I do get a boyfriend I can't imagine how I am going to act around him because I am very shy. But when you do find someone you really like don't you come out of your shyness?
2007-02-18 02:45:40 · 3 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely high school jitters- anticipating, not knowing what it will be like--totally normal! I remember having knots in my stomach! And it will all be great. Sounds like you have a good relationsip with your parents continue to keep that going! You will be fine. My first boyfriend was in High School...and it just happened! You dont think about it, you just meet, and you talk and then maybe he will ask you meet him at the football game, or maybe a date. I say dont think too far ahead. Be excited and know that it will be the best time of your life!
2007-02-18 02:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a very nice young lady. Statistically, you are physically morphing from a child to a woman, You will grow up, you will date and move on with your life. The beauty is, you get to decide when the time is right for you to take each step, don't let anyone push you into anything if your not ready. In the meantime, enjoy being a child in the company of your parents. Childhood is a marvellous time that is all to short. In the long run, I think you are going to be a very nice adult, because you enjoy being with your parents, this is very rare for someone of your age, and extremely admirable. When you get older, life may take you far away from them and the time you spend with them now will live on as precious memories that will keep you going.
2007-02-18 11:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
High School Jitters I remember them well. It is normal, practically every freshman feels the same way. You cant really help it. High School can be scary but it can be a lot of fun too. I wouldnt worry about it as long as you have your parents and friends high school will be a breeze! And a lot of people dont have boyfriends till they are in high school. no worries...
2007-02-18 10:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋