you can not make any one fall in love .but do not worry there are things that you can do and they will either like you or not , show kindness to others she will think you are kind show that you have feelings ,help people talk nice to people even when you do not want to, buy her a card to show you think of her buy her something no body knows about but her something she likes ,do some homework on her ,do not be pushy let her make all the first moves till it gets comfortable you will do just fine just put her emotions and feelings first, at first it is not about what you want in order to get what you want in the end HER!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-18 02:43:54
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answered by JAYHAWKER 2
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Be the person that you are and it helps to pay attention to details. When I was 18 I fell in love because of details. I had known Jeremy for 2 years and we were good friends. We would go grocery shopping together. Gift shopping together. We'd eat dinner at each other's apartments. Nothing romantic happened for 2 years. He started suprising me with things ... Tang... I told him how much I liked Tang when I was a little girl one night while we were talking. I could've bought myself easily but never thought about it much. Then one day he showed up with a container of Tang. It made me realize that he cared about the things I told him and that he paid attention. He always remembered my birthday, the names of my pets and my likes and dislikes. He was very thoughtful and considerate of my feelings. I knew he had me when he showed up with a pint of Jamocha Almond Fudge ice cream from Baskin Robins. It was my favorite and all the stores around our area had closed down. He traveled 60 miles to get me a pint of ice cream and then suprised me with it. Parts of me we falling for him before the ice cream but... the ice cream threw me over the mountain with a quickness! :) And I was in love! It was the best relationship I've ever had. I ended up ending it over something stupid a few years later. I thought I should see what else was out there per my mama's request. It was the stupidest thing I ever did. I still think of him often and dream about meeting up with him again someday. He's married now so that's not likely. I can't picture him divorcing anyone. So... pay attention to the details. Let her know she is important and worth your time and effort. It will make her feel like a queen. And she'll have no choice but to love you. Good luck and God bless!
2007-02-18 02:54:28
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answered by Anonymous
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You can't make anyone feel an emotion that isn't there. The only thing you can do right not is be friends with her. Be there for her. That's the only thing you can do right now. And maybe, just maybe, she'll will start loving you. Or she will only see you as a friend. Life you are taking chances.
2007-02-18 02:39:05
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answered by B.J. 3
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Love shouldn't be forced. You can't MAKE someone fall in love with you, and if you could devise a way to manipulate another person's free will, would you really want that person to "love" you? It wouldn't be true; it would only SEEM like love. Also, what of yourself would you have to sacrifice in the process? To love freely, and be loved freely, is love's ultimate value.
Paradoxically, respecting the choice and will of the object of your affection . . . that may be just the ticket to having your love returned.
2007-02-18 02:40:42
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answered by Rennie 2
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You can't MAKE anybody fall in love with you. the best you can do is get their attention, and then try to EARN their affections. If they don't appreciate what you have to offer, then move on and find somebody that can.
2007-02-18 02:33:14
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answered by mamabear1957 6
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you can't make someone fall in love with you. love is a natural thing it just happens.. there's nothing you can do about it once cupid has shot you. just know people love those who are sincere to themselves.. so keep it real and love will always follow.
2007-02-18 02:33:20
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answered by Blake 3
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I am A boy and my answer is that girls only hungry of our praise of any kind of words which we are choosing for praising girl. Because girl simply does not recognize the personality of any person who are friendshipe with her, so i want only said of those girls if fall it her LOVE first see the personality of that person who want to friendship with you and then firstly friendshipt select then when you see him that how this person behavoiur with u and others, how the person watch you when him talk to you, how think about you and what is him responsibilities in working and then atlast you deside yourself that this person capable for LOVE with you and shape our joys and happiness with you.
2007-02-18 04:27:07
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answered by students_love 1
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well, from my experience, i think you have to get to know her find out what she likes and what she dislikes and surprise her with your thoughtfulness and make her feel special.. Girls like to feel secure so show her that you'll always be there for her no matter what, but dont let her think you can be taken for granted.. get on the same wavelength as her and try to understand the real her..
love isnt forced, it comes naturally..
best of luck xx
2007-02-18 02:33:41
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answered by Lizzie_Livingstock 3
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i don't think you can just make someone fall in love with you. what you should try doing is shairing your feelings with them. i know from exspeance it has a ;ot to do with the way a person feels when they are around you and the way you treat them. when i have strong feeling for someone i want to spend a lot of time with them and when there not around i miss them. i hope this helps......
2007-02-18 02:39:02
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answered by ladyjamie 6
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Someone is going to fall in love with you because the like you the way you are. Be polite and honest with everyone....she will notice.
2007-02-18 02:36:16
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answered by Emily 4
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