I really like this girl, and I've done everything possible to let her know that I like her. I've bought flowers and sent them to her school on valentines day, When we did hang out I always paid for everything even paid for her friend when we went to lunch, rides, I bought her a shirt from her favorite store, I've driven her to school (i'm 18 and in college, she is 17 and in High School), I've done everything in my power to try and make her happy, but it feels as though no matter what I do, she only likes me as a friend nothing more. Its kind of depressing because I like her so much and I think she knows it to but she dosen't feel the same way, I can't stop thinking about her. What am I doing wrong??
2007-02-18 02:17:30 · 21 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only thing you're doing wrong is trying to get romanticly involved with someone who does not want to get romanticly involved with you. Things like this do happen.
2007-02-18 02:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie, I think you're being to dependable. She knows you'll be there for her no matter what. In some cases that's a good thing, but not when she doesn't feel the same way about you. In other words, she's using you. If I were you, I'd slack off a bit. Trust me, she'll notice the change. She might even miss you and realize what a good guy you are.
2007-02-18 10:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by Candie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are doing for this girl is something special, not wrong. The only wrong thing here is the girl. She does not feel what you feel. Don't spend any more money or time on her. Go find the one who will return your feelings. Your a good guy and you deserve to be loved back. Her friends are probably wishing they had a guy like you, and there are others too. She is out there looking for you.
2007-02-18 10:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what your doing wrong buddy is that your trying to buy her love and thats not working so STOP! she already told you that she doesn't like you in that way only as a friend. i know its hard cause you like her. what you can do is act like you don't like her anymore and be a "friend". take a step back stop pressing her.. play it cool and you'll never know maybe she'll turn around and start liking you. one thing you gotta learn about women is that you gotta give them time, space and keep them guessing. if you don't provide 2 of the 3 than your always going to be left out in the cold. oh, and stop driving her to school i know friends do that but start making yourself seem busy don't make her think your life and time revolves around her.. say NO to her sometimes.. remember she's a friend not a girlfriend so you can't be doing things only a boy would do for his girlfriend.
2007-02-18 10:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by Blake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have done everything to show her you care now tell her. Ask her how she feels and tell her how you feel. It is best to just get everything out on the table. Let her know with words. If you cant say it then put it in a card or a letter.
2007-02-18 10:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit wasting your money on her. She has told you that all she wants is to be friends. If she really likes you then if you shower all of that attention that you've been giving her on another girl then she will get jealous. If you are looking for a relationship, you need to stop doing these things for her and find someone else that will appreciate the kind person that you seem to be.
2007-02-18 10:22:00 · answer #6 · answered by K-E-G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buddy, you are doing all these things because you have feellings for her. She is excepting all of these things because she likes the attention and of course getting free rides and free meals and free gifts is a very nice perk. You need to state your intentions clearly so that she knows exactly where you are commming from. If not she will continue to take all that you are willing to give. You deserve more than that. Good Luck:)
2007-02-18 10:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by stuffy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
paying for rides smth doesn't express that u like her.... every gentelman should do this wth all his friends an gf also of course! but they don't.... anyway, why don't u tell her ur feellings about her??? u shouldn't only show this with ur actions..... try to explane and look at her reaction.... wait for some time,... if she'll feel the same way ok then, if not, than u have 2 forget her... it's not as hard as it seems..... look around,.,... she's not the only girl around u....
gooooooooood luck l:^)
2007-02-18 10:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by rrru888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not doing anything wrong...
and I am sure you know this but you can't buy love...
and no amount of nice things done will make someone attracted to you who isn't...
Move on...
It is hard but if she only likes you as a friend then... you are just teasing yourself... prolonging the inevitable...
2007-02-18 10:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by AvidBeerDrinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try playing hard to get for a change, instead of the pushover. You're making yourself bend over backward for her. Convenient for her, but she obviously takes it for granted.
2007-02-18 10:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋