ok so I have my uncle living with us he's not the greatest person he eats all our food drinks all our pop and etc. and he brings up like 50 dishes a night serious. uses the last of everything and wanders around our house and we keep noticing things missing like our digital camera and video games etc. but his son comes sometimes too but he leaves like 3 days before rent is due so he never pays but he's not allowed here anymore and my uncle he only pays 500 a month and thats for the room all our furniture and our food and toilet paper and everything and were sick of him were already a big family we cant deal with it so what can we do!! we need him to leave but my mom wont do it and my dad likes him even though he compains how do we get him to leave for ever. cause last time he lived with us we had to move to get rid of him and he's back again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-18 02:15:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
no my parents want him to leave too well my mom does but they dont know how to make him leave and they do need the 500 a month but were losing much more in the process like our video camera, digital camera, like 20 video games, gameboy, tools,and all our friggen food i dont understand why my parents cant just make him leave i think its because he has an anger problem but seriously enough is enough
2007-02-18 02:22:31 · update #1
Hey, not your house, not your rules. I'm sorry but it sounds like the parents have the say here, not the kids. Someday you will have your own house and be able to make your own rules, however, right now your parents are being understanding and compassinate people who are there for your uncle. Perhaps there is more to the story than you know. I know it's intrussive to you (at your age, most things are), but learn some patience and understanding and perhaps you can enjoy your uncle for whom he really is.
2007-02-18 02:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by daff73 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he cant afford a place of his own go out and find him an apartment that has all utilities included like a bachlors apt or something for around 300 or 350 that way if he can afford 500 a mounth to pay you he can afford 300 for rent plus buy his own food you can always help with furniture and stuff if you can talk to your parents about that tell them how you feel
2007-02-18 02:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're living under your mom and dad's roof then you will have to abide by their wishes. Sounds like they want your uncle to stay with you. Or they really need the $500 a month.
Try to be active in more stuff at school so you don't have to be at home so much.
Good luck!
2007-02-18 02:20:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your spouse (who grow to be completely thoughtless for no longer talking to you first) precisely the form you sense and which you will ask him to pass out. as quickly as you ask him he will possibly say he's your spouse's uncle and he or she says its ok so hes no longer leaving. If he says which you need to examine right into a lodge for an afternoon or 2 for time on my own to clean your strategies, and tell your spouse to make a determination. As your spouse she ought to evaluate your emotions and placed you first through fact its in comparison to its her mothers and dads or little ones. Its her uncle, who's wholesome sufficient to bypass away messes and crash automobiles, so must be wholesome sufficient to get a job if he doesnt have one and pass out.
2016-10-15 22:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if its your parents house and they don't want him to move i doubt he will, as far as him getting into things put stuff that you buy in your room and lock your door so he can't get into it, he is paying rent also but you need to also tell him he has to chip in on the grocery bill.
2007-02-18 02:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom he is harazzing you or doing nasty thing or something i pretty sure ur dad will belive you and kick ur uncless butt and leave him on the streets. but if u dont want to get that dramatic just talk to your uncle and ask him if he plans to stay more or ask ur mom why is he staying so long there and tell her that you feel uncomtrouble around him or something
2007-02-18 02:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by Frankie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch home alone for ideas..................
or
get an occupation order from civil court or restraining order served on him
2007-02-18 02:19:42 · answer #7 · answered by nathan l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honest, or it will come back to haunt you all.
2007-02-18 02:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tel him straightfarwardly & be apart from him & his family.
2007-02-18 02:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by Udit D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋