My dance partner is obnoxiously sexy. He has a great smile, great body with the tall dark and handsome thing going on. We dance together almost everyday while practicing cha-cha, salsa, rumba, tango etc. So it’s all basically close and sensual. I’m pretty much oozing with lust. But my sexual desire for him needs to stop! It took a few weeks to come to my senses but I finally figured out this can’t be good. I HAVE A BOYFRIEND! I mean, I love my boyfriend; he’s the best man I’ve ever known. The sex is great but it’s so spaced out its ridiculous! (We have a long distance relationship so we see each other about every 2-5 weeks) When I do see him, it's like Disney Land... amazing! But between those weeks, I’m a lustful fool ...for my dance partner who I see everyday. How do I make myself desire only my boyfriend? Also, what is WRONG with me?!
2007-02-18 02:13:54 · 12 answers · asked by dumdum4eva 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Switch your dancing partner" or "Stop dancing for a while"
Dance is for fun and life is so much more than just dance. You can learn dance at your own pace with a different dance partner. If you cannot get yourself to switch this dance partner or stop dancing, you have to reconsider your relationship with your bf.
2007-02-21 15:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats so crazy that you feel this way because Im almost there with you. Except im oozing over someone that isnt that great of a guy but yet I am still infatuated with him and I HAVE A BOYFRIEND! I think the reason you do this is because there is something missing between you and your boyfriend while he's gone and you find it with your dancing partner. Hes always there. Your boyfriend isnt. I think its completely normal as long as you keep it to just dancing...If it turns out you feel like your feelings are stronger for your dance partner than your boyfriend..then you'll know what to do
2007-02-18 10:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by Marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. But you need to realize you have a boyfriend and how would he feel if you did something with this dance partner just because of his looks? Looks aren't everything! He probably has a girlfriend of his own and that would be 2 people that could get seriously hurt emotionally, that is of course if it were to go anywhere he might not share the same feelings.
2007-02-18 10:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nothing at all but you need to be honest with your boyfriend,tell hI'm how you are feeling and if he can not relocate and you can not move then you have to tell him if im not that important to you then i need some !!more often than this!! im sorry but iam being honest with you and not if, but when i have great sex with this guy you will not have to even worry because you have been nothing but honest with him , now good luck let me know how it goes , only one question would it just gooooooood sex worth giving up someone you love or is it selfishness just cause your horney? am not asking to be mean just if you are going to be honest you have got to do it all the way. good luck wish it were me my dance partner never enough, let me know how it works out ifuwant 2
2007-02-18 10:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by JAYHAWKER 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Reevaluate the situation because the grass is never greener on the other side. If you are not happy then maybe it won't make a difference
2007-02-18 10:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.Price 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to keep in your mind that you have a boyfriend , try to remember the good times you have witgh your man while your with this other man, You can have thought s thats natural but just dont do them they can effect you pretty bad.
2007-02-18 10:19:16 · answer #6 · answered by teasefreak09 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You dont do anything. Nothing is wrong with you.
You dont think your boyfriend clicks on baywatch and doesnt get a chubby because he has you?
Its natural to be attracted to other people. If you look, and dont touch, NOTHING is wrong with you.
2007-02-18 16:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by mettophobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your human and your relationship with the boyfriend needs a little reconsideration maybe you and him need to be only sex partners which seems to be the case anyway, i would live my life your not promised tomorrow
2007-02-18 10:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop dancing / go and stay with ur boyfriend.
2007-02-18 10:20:55 · answer #9 · answered by Cant stop thinking 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
theres more to life than just sex
2007-02-18 10:37:51 · answer #10 · answered by jamshed007us 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋