w broke up a while ago but i still like him
2007-02-18 02:11:06 · 13 answers · asked by xmillkaywayx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have only 2 words for you: MOVE ON
You can't make somebody like you, or love you, so if you have feelings for him and he doesn't have any for you, it's time for you to move on and find somebody else. You can't do anything to change his mind on how he feels about you. You dated and then broke up, something obviously had to change with one or both of you for that to happen. From my experience, and my best friends, going back to an ex is only trouble....more trouble than it's worth too!
Good luck, move on for your own sake, and have a great weekend.
2007-02-18 02:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by jessicadiamond_4einc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I am in the same situation you are in for about 2 years now and what I have realized you can't make someone love you and you wouldn't want to make someone love you because then they truely wouldn't love you for the right reasons. What you need to do is instead of bugging him about being bf/gf... you need to step back and look at the situation and start over. Be this guys best friend... Let him know that you care about him and even though you guys aren't together you still want to be his friend and hang out. You know a guy told me this one day that he wants to marry his best friend not his girlfriend. And I still believe in that saying today!! You want to be with someone who you can be totally open, honest and have fun with. Try taking a step back and focus more and getting to know him better and proceed from their. And if he is a guy that goes around and tells all his buddies that he needs a girl that lets him have fun is a big clue to get rid of him. It should be where you guys have fun together not apart. Start there... Wish you the best of luck!
2007-02-18 02:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets put it this way. What if the opposite were true and you were answering for him. Would you want to have him say exactly the same about you are would you be happy to know that he opposite was true. You can't have it both ways. Either you do or you don't it is that simple.
2007-02-18 02:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help your feelings but neither can he. It cannot be forced. Try to take care of yourself and keep busy during this difficult time. Be patient with yourself and understand that it may take time, but try to accept the situation as it is.
2007-02-18 02:50:19 · answer #4 · answered by Li 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a piece of paper, type "The End" and keep it with you. Because that is over and it is time to move on to something else.
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2007-02-18 02:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by Bacchus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People always like what they can't have . I say show him that your somebody with out him. Give him the oppertunity to notice how much he missed you.
2007-02-18 02:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by teasefreak09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well stick in there and just flirt and do some things he likes, if he likes u latter on then good 4 u!
2007-02-18 02:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by kp girl 15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me
dont go back, it will hurt more
try someone who is smiliar or look like him to replace him. lol
that really work sometime
good luck
2007-02-18 02:20:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop liking him... Remember it takes 2 to tango....
2007-02-18 02:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no its harsh but u have 2 let go. ull find sum1 else just as gr8 (prob better!)
2007-02-18 02:15:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋