If a 21 year old guy has been going out with his girlfriend for 4 months, what's cheating? Is it talking sweetly to another girl? Is it holding hands, kissing cheeks? Is it cuddling? Kissing on the lips? What if they get intimate, or is just if they uhh.. (this is a family site) get very intimate?
What's your opinion?
2007-02-18 02:11:05 · 14 answers · asked by SweetLaura 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being emotionally and sexually involved with someone, who is not your partner.
2007-02-18 02:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by BritneySpears_1981 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that there are degrees of cheating depending on the status of your relationship. If you are exclusive then all you mentioned would be cheating, if you are not then you are not cheating. It is important to understand what the other person views as cheating. Some people do not think that talking is cheating or kissing, but most do so you have to know what she thinks is cheating. If you are cheating please have the heart to tell her you want to see other people. I was in a relationship with an abusive man for 4 years and my recent ex cheated on me, the pain of cheating is far worse then the pain of being beaten. Trust me.
2007-02-18 02:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are actually dating someone else I would call that cheeting... If they were holding hands someone else and kissing cheeks I might have to talk to the guy first to see if that was cheeting or just being frendly..... Cuddling it depends (I would have to ask the guy and get some facts stright before I said he was cheeting) Kissing on the lips or anything past that I would say CHEETING lol!! Always find out the facts first though things are not always what they seem!!
2007-02-18 02:16:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the focus is not on the girlfriend, and flirting with other females, then it's time for the girlfriend to move on. This so called innocent act of talking sweetly, and holding hands is a definate red flag, for something more to happen. That's my two cents, Take care.
2007-02-18 02:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by Cindybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're talking about a boyfriend, not a husband or a fiance, you're both free to get intimate with others and not call it cheating.
2007-02-18 02:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by so 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends where you are. In some cultures men can have more than one wife and they are not cheating. For you, from all you listed above I would say it is not cheating as long as you can talk openly about it with your mate and not feel that you must hide.
2007-02-18 02:22:51 · answer #6 · answered by Banshee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is suppose to be from the Heart. Cheating would have to be determined to be anything going against the Heart. You figure it out. No trust? No Love. end of relationship.
2007-02-18 02:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would draw the line at kissing on the lips, also if he prefers the company of other girls instead of his girlfriend chances are hes not to worried about what she thinks.
2007-02-18 02:20:08 · answer #8 · answered by jobsy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him...............
if
he is kissing, licking having sex.
Flirting by txt email or has pics etc on his phone. There are rules holding hands intimacy of any type is wrong. Kiss on cheek is fine.
Should you require any demonstrations of what cheating is contact me I will show you.......
2007-02-18 02:16:34 · answer #9 · answered by nathan l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is touching another girl or boy thats cheating
2007-02-18 02:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋