I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. We still have sex almost everyday but lately i feel like it is a chore and i perfer not to. I only do it to please him. He doesnt kiss me or show any signs of affection towards me anymore and it seems like i am do the most work. I need some advice.
2007-02-18 01:15:42 · 15 answers · asked by Krista H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. u take everything in ur hands, thats the solution
2007-02-18 01:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a thought, here? Maybe, all you've been doin' is having Sex. Maybe you need to see what you can do to "Make Love". And there is a difference. We've had love, coming from our Eyes. When your intended is Good Looking. We have Love from our Heads? In fears of being alone. And we have Love, coming from our Crotch. (Pure Horniness) But all of those, will fade, once the excitement, wears off. If you have Love, coming from the Heart? It won't fade. It won't hurt. And it'll always be as exciting as ever. I think you need to see about making this Relationship, more about Love. And less about being satisfied. You've done it, your way. Now try it, mine. It couldn't hurt?
2007-02-18 09:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a 100% garunteed this is eventually every guy. Just some don't even want it everyday. Get used to it or be single. If you have sex with somebody for 5 years there will be nothing exiting about it, this go's for all people i don't care what you say. It gets old making out for 20 minutes just to get to the good stuff every single day.
2007-02-18 09:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're probably having sex more than your sex drive can keep up. Have less sex and do some exploring. Introduce new things, but everyone needs some time for their fantasies and anticipation
2007-02-18 09:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you sit him down and explain to him your dilemma. If you guys have been together for 5 years, you should be able to discuss anything with each other. If he doesn't understand, stop having sex with him daily until he starts to be more affectionate.
2007-02-18 09:21:55 · answer #5 · answered by Deborah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIGURE'S, We always do the work, unless, we turn it around, {ourselfs}. do somethin',differant, do a surprise,,,have fun...And, just because ur not "all ovr, each other", doesn't mean u hv fallin outof love, just into a rut of LOVE !!! Encourage HIM, to be differant !!!
2007-02-18 09:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by Gertie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he needs to smarten up --- more romance and affection --- more foreplay ---- it will make it better for both of you --- sit him down and tell him ---- everyone needs to keep working on their relationship and it is very pleasant work
2007-02-18 09:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be more imaginative, tell him what you like that spices things up and ask him to do it for you
2007-02-18 09:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is selfish.
he is doing it out of lust
and not out of love.
talk to him about it.
he might not be aware of it.
he must think of your feelings too.
and the needs of a partner.
2007-02-18 09:21:48 · answer #9 · answered by math 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell em how you feel
2007-02-18 09:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by Kitty Pie ozozoz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋