i cant get over it
lots of reasons why ,,,
lots of reasons why not but i just want to go to sleep and be with her.. i have lots of reasons , hard question i know but i miss her badly ,, when will the hurt go away!!!!
2007-02-18 01:14:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am so sorry...but honestly I don't think the pain will ever just go away. but as the days go on and the years pass your pain will subside and memories will fill your heart so when you think of her instead of continuous heartache you will be thinking of fond memories instead.
2007-02-18 01:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by cordellialynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sweetie, I too have lost my mum on May 2006. I am lost without her, she was my best friend. I think of her all day long, I even dream about her a lot but we have to keep strong as life carries on. I know this is very difficult but our mums would want us to be happy. The hurt will begin to fade but I think that it will never ever go away. Well sweetie take care, I am sure our mothers are watching us from the beautiful Kingdom of Heaven. God Bless you
2007-02-18 11:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by superstar68 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will never pass completely, remembering the good times does help and looking back I am sure she would want you to succeed in life and not lay down and let it pass you by. October of 2006 has only been a short while, some days will be better than others. I am a parent of a seven year old and I want the very best for him and I want him to be able to succeed where I have failed. If I were not here tomorrow I hope and pray that he would grow up and be honest, strong, good husband, good father and smart and remember me. I am sure your Mom has these hopes for you. I hope I was some help.
2007-02-18 09:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time you just need time to get over the death of a loved one. I do no this much, you are making your mom in heaven very sad by not being happy. She would want you to be happy and the other thing you can do is keep yourself very busy doing school work and working or volunteering. It just takes time to deal with the grief. sometimes it help to speak to a couselor and they will help you deal with your emotions and get back on track. Take care Heather
2007-02-18 09:46:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the hurt will ever go away, but it will get better. Add pictures of the two of you together around your home so you can remember all the good times you shared. Try just talking to her, even though she can't talk back to you. Sometimes that really helps people. Hope you feel better :)
2007-02-18 09:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by ..rae..♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mother will never die. She will always be a part of you and she will be there, somewhere, waiting for you. Don´t wait for the pain to go away, it will eventually, but for now, love her and BE with her. She is with you, ´cause her spirit, her soul, has not died.
Energy is eternal. Maybe you could go to a SERIOUS medium and get in contact with her, that can help and have helped many.
Millions of mothers have died and will die, don´t treat her as dead, LIVE with her until you meet again.
2007-02-18 09:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by ullis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about your mom.....it takes a long time for the pain to diminish...it will never totally go away but over time you will find yourself only remembering the good stuff and smiling when you think of her.....hang in there....good luck
2007-02-18 09:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time will makes the saddness goes away. Your mum has gone away and that is a fact u have to accept. U got to be strong and live for her. she will wants u to be happy n strong too. just remember you will be reunited with her one day, but not now. she left u behind for a purpose. Now live for that purpose and be happy.
2007-02-18 09:21:10 · answer #8 · answered by Starmu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the pain of losing someone you love can never be explained, but rather only experienced. we can however find solice and comfort from others who will enter our pain and empathize with us. someone who listens without giving pat answers that make no sense. my personal experience is that there is one who is such a friend. always there anytime i need Him. ever caring. never judging. His name is Jesus. He has born our sorrows and is aquainted with our grief. He invites you to cast all you cares and burdens on Him. He weeps with you when you are sad, just as he did with mary when she lost her brother. in a way no other can do, He will bring comfort. His word is sure, and one day (i believe very soon ) he will restore those we love to us again. your faith may be weak right now, but He is mighty to save, he is there in heaven praying for you. he desires to give you the holy spirit as your comforter. just turn to Him just as you are and you will find peace. He has promised, and i have found Him to be faithful.
God bless you, rick
2007-02-18 09:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by rick n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel with you. my cousin sister is going through the same thing right now and she is 22. she doesn't have her mom or dad.
in life none of us are immortal and we all have to go through this. but who knows- the journey of our soul always lives forever and will continue. may be she is really happy in the world that she is in right now! its only the human body that fades away. the soul and memories live forever. in this time,prayer really helps. not a pity prayer where you cry but a prayer where you wish god for your health and happiness and of those you love and for the rest of your mom's soul. so whenever you get depressed just say it to yourself 'god bless her soul'. there will be angels with her where ever she is. trust me.
2007-02-18 09:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋