you still find your mate attractive,sensitve to your needs in the bedroom. Do you still hold hands,call with seductive phone messages to lure your mate for an nooner or freaky hotel love making. Keeping it hot... Do tell? how many find love making ardious to your mate?
2007-02-18 01:08:30 · 8 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello, I have been with my mate 10 years. In the beginning it was so hot. But through the years things get to be soooooo routine. Yes I still find him attractive, yes I make seductive phone calls, he doesnt.....absolutely no imagination. BUT! he is the quiet type.... when we are alone he still makes my toes curl, I do get very surprised once in a while and I'll suprise him. I have given him his ultimate fantasy....which takes 3...... So I guess when it tends to get a little boring I find ways to spice it up.
The hand holding thing never was. It never last but a few minutes with him. That has always bothered me. The only time my husband has ever shown any affection towards me in public is when another man shows interest in me. So, I flirt to get what I need from him. I works.
So to tell the truth any relationship takes ALOT OF WORK. Once you find what works, like I have, stick with until it stops, then move on to another adventure. Especially in the sac. Other wiseyou'll get very bored. I think thats why alot of cheating occurs. I can always just close my eyes and pretend that he is Patrick Demsey or RON JEREMY(HE HE) or even Pamela Anderson. Whatever maybe trippin my trigger at the time. You just gotta keep it fun. Thats my story and Im stickin' to it.
2007-02-18 01:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by teena662002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having Children puts a huge damper on a couples sex life. I have to beg my partner to take me away before I feel comfortable. That way I know my children are safe with a caregiver and I will not be interrupted or have that anxiety of children in the next room. My advise.....wait to have children. My problem is.....my partner does not like to get away very often!!! :o(
2007-02-18 01:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by J D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly i have with my boyfriend for 5 years. The love making goes on everyday but not always by choice. I feel sometimes it is chore because it is not always good.
2007-02-18 01:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by Krista H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the time and it now seems that as time goes by we still cannot get enough of each other, i cannot even imagine making love with anyone else truly.
2007-02-18 01:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be asking other women because I have never found making love to be a bad experience.
2007-02-18 01:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. 11 yrs
2007-02-18 01:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love means meeting of two pious soul . not physique.
love means there is no demand .
love teaches us regards
love is worship & ameans to reach you near god.
2007-02-18 01:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by Udit D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
12 years and going strong...it takes work but that's half the fun....
2007-02-18 01:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋