seeing him since Nov.-like each other alot, he says He considers us going steady. See him 3 or 4 nights a week. Problem-he wont make plans, of any sort. Today I asked if he was coming back for dinner, said he couldnt commit to that. (he's working at his own house today..so stop at 6:00) He doesnt talk much, I feel uncomfortable not talking especilaly when we go out. Contends he is a quite person, and gets distracted , goes off in his own mind but when with me it would be considerate to focus! All he had to say was I 'm not sure, I'll call your around 3 or so. Say's he's not seeing anyone else. He is a workaholic and we still havent done Valentines because he hasnt gotten to the "store". Told me to wait till this Thursday. I'm not sure if this is a distancing tactic or if he is truly that rude. Likes me, but dosent go out of his way to fit me in,sched. has to run around him, or else I dont get to see him and thats ok if it feels good. Why doesnt this feel good?
2007-02-18 01:02:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump the scumbag ratbag..dont be allowed to be treated this way..u aint no doormat.
2007-02-25 22:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl......Time You Move On*...If he doesn't TRY to fit you in with his workaholic ways....it's a no win situation. Being with you 3 or 4 nights of the week and not even talking, making you feel uncomfortable.....You don't need that. You dont feel "good" because you Know you are worth more than that and deserve someone who WANTS to spend time with you, talk with you, laugh with you, do different things every now and then, going out together and ENJOYING LIFE together. He obviously LOVES his Work...so let him have all the time he wants to devote to his work....Move On to Brighter and Better things~ because YOU DESERVE IT*~
GOODLUCK
2007-02-18 01:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The key to any relationship is communication. YOu are going to have to sit your partner down and have a heart to heart talk. Tell him that you are getting upset because you are not communicating and you are afraid the relationship isn't going to work if he doesn't learn to talk to you, and is that what he wants? Tell him all the things that upset you and tell him you are only doing this because you need so much to know how he feels and what he needs, but you too have needs and all you are looking for is some communication so that your relationship doesn't break down. Chances are he will not realise how he is being so aloff (distant). Life is too short to be unhappy so you need to have this talk with him. I am sure he will listen when he realises how hard you are trying to make things work, take care, I hope this works out for you, Heather
2007-02-18 01:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's up to something. If he cannot make plans with you, that is a problem. You are not going steady, he is holding you prisoner in a one-sided relationship. And the Valentine thing, please! We got almost a foot of snow and my boyfriend still got out to get my present. That is a crock of s$#$, you know it and so does he.
2007-02-25 16:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋