i've asked yesterday if what i feel for my superior is correct. right now i can feel that he ignores me. its like that he will be sweet and afterwards he will ignore me. i know that i shouldnt be asking anymore because i know he has a gf and i have a gf also (well im a bi thats why) and i should stop and more or less this is not correct. but i cannot help it. i always think of him. what should i do? should i stop? i even texting him and he doesnt know its me because im using another number. its all my fault. even if he's flirting and even if he shows me a lot ocf care i should not put meanings on it. i really need an advice. thanks!
2007-02-18 00:37:39 · 9 answers · asked by <fish_me> 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im happy with the answers..tnx..
2007-02-18 00:50:27 · update #1
Dont do it it will make things harder on you.The best way would right a letter on how you feel about him and throw it away .This will releave the feelings that you asked him and you will feel relived in this ...Belive me it works.You will never get a answer but it will relive your mind from asking him and getting rejected.
2007-02-18 00:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by DR.Frankie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes stop! Because you both are in relationships!! Maybe he's just a flirty guy. I know it's hard when there is an infatuation but try to get your mind off him and on something else productive. Oh, and the anonymous text thing... really freaky on his end of it. I know because I have gotten some before and it's way more scary and totally didn't flatter me at all. Imagine if he were to find out... So it's probably best to try to put an end to this before your crush gets worse!
2007-02-18 00:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by Rizzo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not quite sure what advice you want.
Leave the guy alone, i know it's hard but you need to let go girl. Remember, it's just a crush, it WILL go away. But if he has a gf and he ignores you..well...things don't look good for the two of you so I wouldn't torture yourself.
Go out with other people, even as friends, just do stuff to forget about him and remember you have a life! Enjoy it!
2007-02-18 00:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a little confused, you speak of him as your superior, he is your boss or is he just a grown up, either way it is not good to continue with this. Very rarely does a job related romance workout and if he is to old for you and you continue you could get him into trouble and if that happens you will not be able to see him at all. So move on. Good luck.
2007-02-18 00:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I am Singapore guy, and I always find Singapore girls very attractive. Even I had travel many other countries, I still think the same way. He may not cheat, but certainly something have changed, and you are still keep in the dark.
2016-03-29 01:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As your Superior on the job, he would be risking a sexual harassment situation by becoming too friendly. Keep things professional.
2007-02-18 00:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by Debra D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may change your life, or add more fun... I like bi - ladies, they turn most lovely when in love. Holding your feelings is pressure in the heart, you may go ahead with them and have fun
2007-02-18 00:44:23 · answer #7 · answered by Dosage 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may be Married or have someone else. You need to realize that it ain't happenin'. You need to respect him for not using you. His Boat has sailed. And you're not on it. Move on!
2007-02-18 00:49:39 · answer #8 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes stop
2007-02-18 00:40:51 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋