my BF is 20 & we've been together 5 months & his soooo clingy
2007-02-18 00:12:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My fiance is very clingy. He is not jealous or possesive... just clingy.
I just put him in his place. It doesn't get better unless you make it get better.
Odds are he doesn't realize what a detriment it can be to you relationship. I wouldn't dump him unless you make an effort to stop it first and it doesn't work
2007-02-18 00:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by hollilynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES BE CAR FULL its true that it is a sign of insecurity if you are really keen start off with telling him that you have already had a bf like him before and it didn't last very long ! and it got so boring you cant even be bothered to tell anyone as it would be embarrassing for people to think you were stupid to have entertained hI'm in the first place as no man wants to be weak and you find that a weakness try and put it to him in a way that he will think its not him your aiming at and if he says do you think im clingy you say no its just that I wouldnt like you to be it would spiol everything and you wouldnt stay with him if he was, but if you had aready said that he is clingy be straight and just say pack it in or there will be no piont in carrying on seeing each other and if you are ment to be you will be.
2007-02-18 08:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by gwen w 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess one could say I am clingy a man. But I have a clingy wife. So I really enjoy it.
2007-02-18 08:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by hey you 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better to be clingy, than not interested !, just ask him to give you some space. Its his way of showing you he likes you
2007-02-18 09:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by Simon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is clingy because he is afraid he is going to lose you because he is insecure about himself and the relationship the two of you have. Talk to him about it. He will only succeed in driving you away if you don't. Soon you will feel stifled by him and he will get very possessive.
Talk to him or lose him completely. You don't sound too happy.
2007-02-18 08:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes i use to go out with one i broke up with him . Im very independent and can't tolerate people who are clingy .
2007-02-18 08:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i was with someone like that and it killed our relationship...i felt smothered, he would not go home, he was calling me numerous times a day, deliberately being in the same place as i would be at...turning up at my job, accusing me of things that never happened...basically suffocating me 24/7 he had a lot of personal issues and i could not handle his insecurities....he was possessive, in the end it turned nasty and i had to leave him, could not get rid of him for months until he was locked up for harassment...he turned out to be a nut case and dangerous, so he had to go
2007-02-18 09:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes my ex was so clingy and got worse and worse the longer we were together, hence why he is now my ex, trust me move on and fast before it gets worse. He will probably still try to cling to you after you split.
2007-02-18 08:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, but I have met clingy women...It gets old real fast, and it even gets worse.
2007-02-18 08:15:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, (although I'm a guy I know what you're talking about). In the beginning you can mistake clinging for romance and love. It isn't that AT ALL. It indicates he's emotionally crippled and not mature.
2007-02-18 08:16:36 · answer #10 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋