ok well my and I had a little fight and i personally think hes overreacting I just told him that his ex.told me that "you 2were still dating"he got mad and called me liar then told me he wanted to dump me...So Yesterday I phoned him around 9 I was with my best friend and he said he wasnt at home(He was with his friends)hes 18 me 16 So he asked me if we could talk around 1am so I said yes So When I sms'd him he was high so we were just talking and I asked him if he still wanted to dump me he said "I dont like to make decsesions when im high"
I told him how sad I was that I loved him etc...He didnt say anything...He just told my friend he wasnt sure if im sinsere.
My friend then said he doesnt deserve me he got mad and told her to shut the fuc% up and then he went to sleep!!!!!
Im soooo lost pls help does he love me hes not always like this but guys what signs are these thanks sooo much!!!!
2007-02-17 23:52:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Walk! The one main part of the emotion, called, "Love"? Is respect! And this Clown ain't got it. You're much too good, for this kind of treatment. Walk away. At least to show him that you're not gonna be mistreated. Love yourself. `Cause he sure don't!
2007-02-17 23:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have u guys been going out? cause don't u think it's a little soon for "love" word, and one more thing don't hang on so tight that one feels that he is being suffocated.and if loves u he will respect you and try to make up with u, so take a stand and if he doesn't respect u then he doesn't deserve u so stop worrying cause there are a lot of guys out there waiting for u i am sure.
All the best.
2007-02-18 00:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lucky Lukes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let it bother u so much..its not worth it. ur only 16, and he doesnt seem like much of an 18 year old. esp if he gets high..you dont really want to associate with that. either let him go, or tell him u want to drop the fight and u that u didnt mean to stir things up. boys are more dramatic than girls sometimes. good luck!
2007-02-18 00:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the fact that he got soo angry at u for mentioning that his ex told u that they were still dating seems like he's hiding something in the first place. And if he can't be bothered to sit down and sort things out with u then he's not worth u. And it shows that he's not really bothered. U need to forget him and move on.
2007-02-18 00:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is overreacting. It sounds like he is trying to control you. If he said he wanted to dump you just because of something you heard and confronted him about. I would dump him! He is obviously immature, and you deserve better than that. Don't let any guy make you feel like that.
It almost sounds to me that he may be interested in someone else, but is trying to push HIS guilt on you to make it easier for him.
2007-02-18 00:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he believes you did something dishonest and doesn't trust you anymore. I don't know him but from what you just described he doesn't sound like the best person to chase after, mind you, you should never chase a man. If he wants to be with you he'll come to you, there's nothing you can do about it either way. It's hard but just be patient.
2007-02-17 23:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by NYGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i attempted* to be very polite,* asking her approximately various* issues in her life. How did* she pay off me?* She informed me a terrible like that ended up humiliating me. i'm no longer fairly specific approximately 'how did she pay off me'. It relies upon on the demanding of the whole piece... additionally, some human beings are very choosy bearing directly to the word 'very', that's the problem.
2016-10-02 08:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is way too immature for a bf-gf relationship. He isn't even going to try to be nice to you unless you do everything his way. Even if you make up now, he will dump you soon. Walk away.
2007-02-18 00:00:06 · answer #8 · answered by lollipop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, i wouldnt know, cos, he's your boyfriend.. and you would know him best...
i think you should try talking to him at another time...
when hes at least a bit more clear-headed!!
not high, not drunk... then at least, he can make proper decisions...
i think it was good of him not to follow his impulses when he was high..
and i think you should try talking to him face to face..
i honestly dont think you should talk about relationships on the phone...
and preferably, talk to him without your friends or his friends around...
i mean, its your relationship, rite? why drag your friends into it..?
give him a chance, and talk to him...
u guys should discuss things, and then see what happens...
good luck!!
2007-02-18 00:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by eamaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would walk. No one deserves to get treated in such a shabby way
2007-02-17 23:59:53 · answer #10 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋