im girl working in a private sector my prob is that my would be is very stubborn in his words which hurts me some time plz i want change him how?
2007-02-17 23:36:05 · 11 answers · asked by ushachandra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't change anybody. Go find somebody you like as-is.
2007-02-17 23:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Instead of changing him if he is stuborn, try and change yourself whereever you feel he dominates you and hurts you!! Dont let him take you for granted on things that you like and do all the time!! Request for space and if you dont get it, get it in your own way!! you cant win over such people unless you make changes in yourself may be for a temporary period!!
Deeps
2007-02-18 08:14:04 · answer #2 · answered by Deeps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change him. He has to want to change himself. Sometimes, with time, a person will realize that how they conduct themselves and treat people and stubborness just doesn't work.
Some people are stubborn, because they are afraid of getting hurt. It's their defense mechanism. Don't waste your time and energy. He'll change, when he truly realizes his ways do not bring him happiness. And, if he doesn't then, it just wasn't meant to be. Meaning, he was meant for a life of unfufillment.
2007-02-18 07:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not going to change anybody. This person is going to have to change on his own. Nagging at him about his actions are going to make things worse. Like it or not you'll have to accept him as he is or move on if his behavior is too annoying
2007-02-18 07:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you cant change someone. you should try talking to him about how bad he makes you feel. if he carries on being nasty to you dont speak to him. explain you wont put up with being spoken to like that and if it carries on youre going to have to report him.
2007-02-18 07:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by xamethystx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im stuck in the same position just ignore him he will be set right.
actually its kinda working for me.
2007-02-18 09:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by I love myself!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be more stubborn and let him see how it feel to be with someone as stubborn.....
2007-02-18 07:40:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well..don't worry..just love him truely..
he will himself change his behaviour towards you..
congrats!!
2007-02-18 11:41:09 · answer #8 · answered by ruprekhawati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. it will take sometime, so keep on trying.
2007-02-18 07:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u can't change a man......didn't u kno that?!
2007-02-18 08:12:51 · answer #10 · answered by d1nonlidx2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋