I recently became friend with this wonderful creature three weeks ago. I can't stop thinking about her. She already has a boyfriend. We have 2 classes together and I don't want things to be weird between us. What should I do ladies?
2007-02-17 23:35:12 · 11 answers · asked by jason46242003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bf is not a wall. It can be moved.
2007-02-17 23:38:22 · answer #1 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect that she has a boyfriend. She will appreciate it, he will appreciate it, and it's just the right thing to do. Bonus: If they do end up breaking up she will remember that you respected her and did not try to wreck her relationship even though you liked her!! If you try to make a move now, she will think that you DON'T have that respect for relationships and that could count against you later.
If you find it too hard to hang out with her and just be her friend because of feelings getting in the way, you have to take a step back from her in order not to make things weird.
Good luck!
2007-02-17 23:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by Rizzo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the honorable thing to do would to be to step back from the relationship until her other relationship is resolved. You can be friendly and say hello, etc, but I'd say nothing out of class together until something has changed. Try to put yourself in the other guy's shoes and think, "how would I want this situation handled?"
2007-02-17 23:40:25 · answer #3 · answered by beloved_abbas_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if? She already has a girlfriend. Move on. Find another girl who loves you back. Believe me, you dont want to be a 5th wheel. That is not healthy. Just be friends. Be yourself. You sound like a nice person, you will find some1.
2007-02-17 23:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she already has a BF , just wait maybe they will break up sometime.
I think it may make your friendship weird for her if you ask her out.
Keep being a relly good friend, in the future feelings may grow
2007-02-17 23:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become friends, but flirt with her like crazy. Hint at your feelings.
You want HER to decide that you are the one she wants to be with.
Don't push to hard and be unavailable at times. This should peak her interest.
Be careful that you don't just become her "buddy".
Edited to add... She isn't married.
2007-02-17 23:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by SouthernGrits 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act normal and find out it the BF is true or not.
2007-02-17 23:38:19 · answer #7 · answered by esmefort 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask yourself whether your obsession with her isn't correlated to her unavailability.
2007-02-17 23:50:53 · answer #8 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. u better cut ur riendship with her
2007-02-17 23:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it easy just chill,relaxe remeber she is a friend.
2007-02-17 23:39:33 · answer #10 · answered by Cherelle M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋