2007-02-17 23:23:54 · 17 answers · asked by silentguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have seen some friends of mine change for the better. So it is very possible for you!
here are suggestions:
1. mingle with straight guys: in school, at work, in other social gatherings
2. join a church group and talk to the male leaders --tell them your concern
3. pray
check out: preacherinbluejeans.com
2007-02-17 23:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by j_timberLate 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds as though you are in denial about who you really are. Can you figure out why you "feel like" you're gay? Why do you want to be straight? Is it because of how you think people around you, friends and family both, will think and feel about you?
In the end, the most important thing is that you be comfortable with who you really are. Perhaps talking with a professional therapist would be able to help you sort through these conflicting feelings.
Be happy with yourself first, let others worry about themselves because in the end, you can't control how other people will react to anything so don't stress about it. Acceptance will or won't come in it's own time, but it has to come from you first.
2007-02-17 23:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be straight?
I think you want to be straight because you might be mocked by other men.Thats foolish.
What really makes you feel good?A man or woman?Actually consider this;Would you have a better chance having deep [and monogamous!] feelings with a man or with a woman?
You should be content with what you feel.Do what your heart tells you to do.
2007-02-18 00:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by ♠ Oscillate Wildly ♠ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't, honey, plain and simple. If you try to deny who you are you will be miserable your whole damned life. If you are gay, suck it up. Face up to the fact that you are gay and then you can get on with your life.
Best of luck and go with what your heart, head and gut feeling tell you. xx
2007-02-17 23:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by b3xecutioner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop listening to people who tell you that you may be gay. A lot of young men go through this, and they could be persuaded to think that they may be gay in today's world.
2007-02-17 23:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by Benvenuto 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you either are or you aren't. if you think you gay you are gay. don't force yourself to be something your not. maybe you feel like your gay because you havn't had many g/f's therefore as a result you have felt attracted to men? don't mean that as an insult lol. i just mean it happens. be who you are man. i know some gay mates and it's not as if they are weirdos because they like men/women haha. good luck finding yourself;)
2007-02-17 23:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by chris c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess if u r gay u r gay .. u cant b straight its not that easy.. just admit to yourself u are gay n b happy with it .. good luck
2007-02-17 23:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by maz_pop 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are really gay you can never be straight.
2007-02-17 23:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by Moonwitch 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are gay, don't try to be something Ur not, u will only hurt innocent people who think ur straight!
2007-02-17 23:29:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe your just depressed because in depression your sex drive is low so you may think that your gay so maybe you can get rid of your depression first then your sex drive will be back
and... waalaaa your sex drive is back and your back on the straight path
good luck!!
2007-02-17 23:38:05 · answer #10 · answered by simply_me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋