Okay, My boyfriend and I said that we would meet up on Valentines day, but we didnt end up meeting because he wouldn't pick up my calls or reply my texts so we didnt know what time to meet. So instead we said we'd meet on friday. Then on friday while I waited for him outside the station, I met one of my friends so I thought I'd talk with him untill my boyfriend came, and so we were talking and joking and then suddenly my boy turns up with his friends around him and I wave and he didnt say anything and just kept on walking and so I yelled out his name and he stopped and then I gave him his V-day pressie and then he just said "k, thanks cya!" and just walked off leaving me standing with my friend. Did I do something wrong?
2007-02-17 23:18:29 · 15 answers · asked by Leila 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont know what has broke your relationship down, but it definatley seems he is not wanting to be with you at this time.From what your've wrote i cant see any indication that you have done anything wrong, he must be told that he has hurt you and talk to him about what he wants from this relationship, because to me it seems he wants out, and if so you need to move on. I hope it works out the way you hope.
2007-02-17 23:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by sandygant 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a very sad story mate, and im sorry to hear it. i think of him to be very rude in just walking away from you, either he doesnt want to be with you anymore, or he thinks you were with the other person, i dont no, i cant understand any other reason as to why he would do this to you for , i really think that he thought you were to busy with you other friend instead, but u didnt do anything wrong ok. just call him up and talk to him about it ok, its the best way to do it. but do so when his friends are not around good luck and take care
2007-02-18 07:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships are like being in the middle of a battle. i say that because you don't know if one action that you do, could set off a firefight. these words that i'm about to offer as advice, seem to be what has worked for me in the past.
that would depend. i'm not trying to say that you did do anything wrong, but it could have happened. even if you didn't know that you did anything wrong. i've had the same thing happen to me. what i would suggest, is give it a few days, try not to think about him, or call him, text him, whatever. let him come to you. it sounds weird, but it makes good tactical sense.
any good infantry soldier knows when to set up a defencive perimeter.
in essence, you let him come to you. eventually he will. it might take a little time, but he'll show his face. when he does, it sounds weird, but talk to him about it. tell him how it made you feel, and see what his reaction is. (keep in mind, this is comming from a guy) if his reaction is like he dosen't care, then toss him like a grenade. he isn't worth your time.
if he seems like he does care (which i'm going to say isn't very plausible. its possible, but not that plausible.) you might be able to work through it.
worst case senerio, you break up with someone that wasn't that good in the first place.
2007-02-18 07:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by the_3_rd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong at all. He missed valentine's, then he probably didnt like seeing you with another guy at the station, so he just blew off his plans for that night. It might be time for you to find someone new. But, no, you didnt do anything wrong.
2007-02-18 07:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by John Redcorn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, unless you were obviously flirting around with your friend then he might be jealous but in the scenario you said i think its your bf who has a problem like the cold treatment actually its not cold its like he doesn't even want to let others know about you or he is embarrassed to be seen with you. and that valentine thing its more of like he stood you up. if i were unless he's able to give me valid reason we would have been finished.
2007-02-18 07:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by cascedric 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds bad for you. Its not a good sign when a bf is not taking your calls or replying to your texts on valentines day.
Then he acts like a d i c k when you give him the present? Nah thats not on. You have to have respect for yourself and demand it from him
2007-02-18 07:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by Oz Billy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe im a little old fashioned but generally most guys dont go for meeting there girlfriend and the other guy !!! thing very complimentary. He probably took it the wrong way, you need to explain. Its a guy thing!!!
2007-02-18 07:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by jobsy1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. You have lost your dignity somewhere along the way.
Stop chasing this guy. He's not that interested, and not worth all your efforts.
2007-02-18 07:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think so? First, as a rule, I do not date somebody does not answer his phone. What do you think? He does not see your calls? I do not thinks so I think he does not care enought to answer your calls. That is the problem.
2007-02-18 07:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by www.tr-avel.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just explain the situation and everything would turn out fine
2007-02-18 07:25:44 · answer #10 · answered by silentguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋