the other day she said 'no'.. i mean.. how am i to know i should have forced her?!! she's angry now because it showed i was not that 'keen' !! god!...is there an answer..girls ..how is a man supposed to know ..help!!!
2007-02-17 22:45:56 · 25 answers · asked by Doubting Thomas 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No is always no. Even if she was testing you to see if you were serious it is still no. It is a sign for you to try a different tack. Unfortunately even if she wanted you to go further by saying no you are set up for recrimination if she wants to change her mind at any point after your encounter. The fact that she said the words no means you could be looking at a jail sentance if you keep going even if she really really wants you to. So it isn't worth it. No means no even if it means yes because it is not worth the consequences if she wants to twist the situation later and use it against you.
2007-02-17 22:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I dont care about looks or any of that bs, i go for personality. Which i know alot of girls just decide over looks. Im not a shallow person, and i would give almost any guy a chance. Im not a cheater, and im not a liar. I tell the truth-most of the time..(for example, i would lie about something that may hurt their feelings.. obviously not something like cheating though). Any guy that i care about, i would do almost anything for. What girls want? In my case, i just want someone caring to love, and to love me back. I remain unhappy for many reasons. All women are different, Just because we are all the same gender doesnt mean there are certain things that make us all happy/unhappy. Everyone has their own opinions, and personality. The perfect man for me is someone that has a good sense of humor, not a cheater, and is mature enough to have a long term relationship without hurting me on purpose. Other than that.. im not very picky.
2016-03-29 01:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man you can initiate things slowly (...you get it ) and if she backs off you can still save yourself by saying that she felt cute at that moment and you were trying to show some good natured affection.
And if she further complains that you were not enthusiastic enough then be a man then say flat that you are a no nonsense fellow and not into mind games and if she wants to play that then be it with someone else.Always remember girls like men who are assertive in nature and are confident of themselves and their actions.Respect her,make her laugh but don't let her circumvent you.Most probably next time she will say yes and mean it.
2007-02-17 23:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by Stranger 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's a simple answer to this one. Find yourself a girl that doesn't say one thing and mean another.
Girls like that only end up that way because guys have pandered too them too much and spoiled them before. She shouldn't be testing you with trick answers like that.
If you fancied stooping to her level, you could just try doing the same thing some time, see how she likes it.
2007-02-25 22:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a girl looks straight in your eyes and says NO then it means NO. If she avoids eye contact while saying NO, then there is an element of doubt and probably means YES.
2007-02-17 23:19:18 · answer #5 · answered by ndeepuachari 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes when a woman says no she doesn't mean it, but it's just a way of getting more time to think about it. You should be able to tell by persistence, see if she yields. If she doesn't, she really did mean no.
2007-02-17 22:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You did the right thing, no always means no, it never means yes. I would check the girl you were with, she's the one with the issues.
2007-02-25 16:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can know that she likes you if she takes time to answer or simply blush and smile and say no but there are girls with different attitudes. are you quite sure that she likes you i.. mean ..may be she wants to see if you really get hurt if she says no.. i think first you should really try to convince her that you love her truly
2007-02-17 22:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by catrina a 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its happend to me. but now i can just tell, when a no means a yes. maybe you should agree earlier on in the day that you may do some role playing that night.
2007-02-17 22:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by JIM M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey guy! So many wonders await u & ur life. Don't concentrate only on girls and the pleasures they give.
2007-02-17 22:57:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋