hey jennifer my name is travis and there was a time my wife and i got into a big fight because of that same thing i got an account that was very similar to that one and honestly it was just to look at pics of other women i love her to death would never cheat on her but still liked to se nakid pics of other women maby he's just bored and more sexually active than you are find out if he is really doing it for the pics has he set up any dates if not its probably just for the pics my wife realised that i love her and only want to be with her and i found somewhere else to find my smut so she wouldn't have that worry
2007-02-17 22:49:40
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answered by Travis G 1
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The key to this is your statement "things are ok". What is it that's making you consider moving on? You don't believe his reason for having the friend finder account? This is a trust issue, and if things were "ok" it wouldn't be a problem would it? After 3 years together, if he's playing around, you'd surely notice changes in his behaviour and attitude. Have there been any? Maybe ok isn't enough...maybe things should be "great" or "fantastic", and you're just looking for a reason to leave him?
My advice would be ~ don't settle for less than you deserve. If you're generally not happy with your relationship and think that you'd be happier out of it, then move on. If this is just a little niggling doubt in an otherwise good relationship, then talk to the man. Tell him you feel uncomfortable and insecure about the account and that it's affecting the way you feel about your entire relationship.
Nobody who answers this can know what your boyfriend's doing. We can only second guess. The only way you can be sure is to challenge him and make HIM reassure you. If that doesn't make you feel any safer or happier with him...then you know in your heart what's best for YOU! Good luck x
2007-02-18 06:54:05
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answered by gill s 2
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Sounds like a trust issue! U dont believe him? I dont have a adult fiend finder's account. r there adult movies there? and does he have a high sex drive?
i dont know but if u dont trust him and u know him run! but if u feel left out might b something missing in y'all sex life ! maybe y'all can talk about it and find out what's missing,if y'all in love .If not what the heck break up and find it in someone else.but if he's looking at sexy ladies and u mad then there is something missing! I am a man im going 2 alway's look but wont do it while my lady is with me! that's disrespct ! If im happy i stay home.if i think i need better i would look! but wouldnt mind telling my lady becuase im not happy! comunicate first find the problem and deal with it. if he.s not happy tell him 2 man up then deal with it!
2007-02-18 07:17:01
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answered by sitting_in_th3_cut 2
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do you watch the movies with him?
seriously, you are not offering up much to give a good answer. you have been together for 3 yrs. that is a long time, do you want to get married? have you maintained yourself to look the same as when you met? are you still doing it like you did when you 1st hooked up?
2007-02-18 06:47:57
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answered by Need My Email 2
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OMG, absolutely. I dated a guy who had a profile on one of these.
He gave me every excuse in the world, even turned it around on me, as to why I was looking on there. Even had the nerve to say he never met anyone on there. Doesn't matter. People that have no morals or character hang out on those sites. Put yourself above all of that crud. You deserve someone who cares about himself. Doesn't sound like your guy has a brain of decency.
2007-02-18 06:50:12
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answered by Anonymous
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Make up and account too and if ya find out he is cheating give him some of his own medicine........Hook up with a hott guy and **** the **** outta him but make sure he finds out so he can feel the pain u have felt
2007-02-18 06:47:49
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answered by Vince S 1
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First tell him you would feel better if he did not have that account. There are other ways to see porn. If he says no, then move on.
2007-02-18 06:45:31
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answered by Anonymous
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If you are tired of him and want to find somebody to spend the life with, then yes. If you are willing to leave after three years, ja.
2007-02-18 06:44:39
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answered by Benvenuto 7
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This sounds like an activity you could do together and make the relationship stronger,tell him you like porn and other deviant activities.
2007-02-18 07:03:08
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answered by dcam47 2
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Yes, you should move on. He could find movies elsewhere if he really wanted to.
2007-02-18 06:47:46
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answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6
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