Oh, it's the age old question: how long to wait to call a guy before calling him or forgetting about him? I met a guy on Wednesday (Valentine's Day). We exchanged numbers, so I guess either of us could call, huh? However, I'm a bit old-fashioned and he said that he'd call....
What should I do? Today's Sunday, so it's been about four days. Do those rules still apply: "he should call within 48 to 72 hours; if not, he isn't interested". At first I said, "I'm too old for the game...." Now I realize that I'm not!
Help!
2007-02-17 21:16:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would wait my motto is "when in doubt do nothing"
2007-02-17 21:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Lin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him, we live in modern times it is perfectly ok for a woman show she is interested in a man. He may even be flattered that you were so impressed with him that you felt inclined to take the initiative to call him. What does it matter who calls who first anyhow. Only time will tell if he is interested in you so call and start to find out if the chemistry is there.
2007-02-18 05:30:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sondra P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Waiting is better and safe as calling would down the value and prestige. Let the guy come, if not, it means he has got another guy other than you.
2007-02-18 05:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should call him,b/c if he is the right guy for you ,you don't want to lose him and if he is those kind of guy who give there phone number and have a one night stand then you wouldn't be wandering if he was the right guy for you, either way you have to call him and find out you have noting to lose
2007-02-18 05:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by princes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call him and you shouldn't behave like a desperate girl for guys in front of him just call him and have a general conversation things will work accordingly.all the best
2007-02-18 05:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by adi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go girl ...... call him you may never know maybe he lost your numbers , its good to try and hear if he is no longer interested but I dont think so. Wish you good luck
2007-02-18 05:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by NUNU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call anyway just to check that hes not sitting there asking the same thing.
2007-02-18 05:20:58 · answer #7 · answered by emesumau 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if its a mobile number then i would text him as an ice breaker, like did you enjoy your night etc, then if he doesnt text back then you know the score good luck
2007-02-18 05:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by betty_boop81xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him call
2007-02-18 05:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him call you girl!
2007-02-18 05:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by htrime 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋