My BF and I have beentogether for a month and still no kiss. I have just found out that he has a heart prob. and he is going to the Doc. Monday. I'm so upset about all of it I want to take him to the movies Monday but I'm afraid he will say no. He is 15 and I'm 13 I'm his first girlfriend and I kinda want to be his first kiss... But you 15 year old guys always want to makeout with us girls what is wrong with him ! ? ! ? ! ? ! ? ! ? ! ? ! ? !
2007-02-17 20:56:51 · 15 answers · asked by sissa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He does not even hold my hand until I get up from our table at lunch!!!!!!
2007-02-17 21:02:30 · update #1
It's just kinda awkward at that age. He's probably just self-conscious and nervous about it.
2007-02-17 21:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is shy. Maybe he wants to make sure his first kiss is something that will be special. A month is not a long time to have been dating yet. Maybe he just respects you enough that he wants to do things slowly with you. Maybe he has too many things on his mind, especially with having a heart problem that it's hard for him to focus on you like he normally would. It could be a lot of things. If you really like him wait until the time is right for him too. Oh, and just casually ask him if he wants to go to the movies on Monday or another time. If he says no it shouldn't be that big of a deal unless he is NEVER wanting to hang out with you, which is an entirely different situation altogether.
2007-02-17 21:04:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ro-Ro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does count. If this motives a topic with your wanting to kiss him, then that's a very massive deal. the foremost to ALL relationships is honesty. you're able to tell him the reality or your relationship is doomed besides. come across a communique starter and only tell him. Then pratice with him. He would be somewhat shielding in the past each little thing, yet i'm advantageous by ability of the top of all of it you will the two be cracking up and kissing like specialists. sturdy success!
2016-11-23 16:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably under the impression that you are being sympathetic towards him, after just finding out this news about him. For guys it is a "pride" issue. Try asking him what he would be interested in doing (instead of just saying - let's go to movies), then you both go do it together. Instead of rushing the kiss issue, try more hand holding, carassing, etc. first... to work up towards your other goal. In time, I am confident all things will work out in your favor.
2007-02-17 21:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by ccchevydude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww sweety! NOTHING is wrong with him!
Be thankful he's the way he is and not trying to jump you at every chance!
I didn't have my first kiss until i was 18!! and it was after i had been seeing my boy for about a month!
he probably just thinks this is too special to rush, a month isn't a lot of time - even big bad adults might not (and probably shouldn't) kiss too soon ;-)
2007-02-17 21:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by StockRdHappy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is cool. One your still very young, there is no need to rush this. The day will come around and when it does that kiss will likely be the kiss you will remember for life. May not be your first kiss, but sounds like it should be.
2007-02-17 21:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by IndianaHoosier 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats stopping you from kissing him? Maybe he doesnt think he's very good at kissing or thinks you are so young as to not really expect one. Maybe he comes from a good family and is more of a gentleman than the other randy little tykes youve been around?
2007-02-17 21:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know he might be shy but give it some more time im sure things will work out for u good luck
2007-02-17 21:01:52 · answer #8 · answered by glowing flair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to have a bf
2007-02-17 21:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry teach him or show him that u wana lip lockin
i was 14
give it some time
2007-02-17 21:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by umair a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋