so the guy I'm dating gets limp with condoms... he doesn't finish or anything like that after awhile he said he loses sensitivity... now not wearing condoms is not an option for me... soo what else can we do... we even used the trojan ultra thin... nothing works!!!
2007-02-17 20:42:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he doesn't suggest not using them... it just sucks for me because it goes limp in the middle... and not even he has finished!
2007-02-17 20:57:30 · update #1
what ever the boys and gals say (above me) I myself don't like to wear it,believe me whenever I tried with it I never felt sensitivity, for us just to avoid pregnancy..is the most important factor...then she start using pills...,and we have completed 14 years of our married life..., I am living with her with our two children ...yes she is my one and only sweet wife.
2007-02-17 21:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by 2bros 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you circumcised? Circumcision removes a huge chunk of sensitivity from a man. Then once you add a condom into that factor sometimes men lose so much sensitivity from both adding together they can't stay erect with a condom (not enough feeling to stimulate an erection). However if the condom is too tight is seems like COMMON SENSE to be to get a bigger size. If you are going to wear a condom that's too small why do you bother at all? The thing is going to break and well hell, what was the point? to be honest you should do a little maturing before having sex ever again. Then get some big boy condoms. -Connor
2016-05-24 01:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are just concerned about pregnancy try another method such as the pill, or maybe have sex with him with a condom until you are finished, then finish him off with your hand or mouth or something. If you are worried about STDs you guys need to work on getting him past this issue by maybe trying new things while using a condom... because unless you use one you won't be protected from STDs.
2007-02-17 20:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by Ro-Ro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend has a psychological issue with condoms, which is not unusual where men are concerned. It has nothing to do with sensitivity. It is possible an issue of emasculation. There is no way that the act is going to result in a pregnancy, so therefore, it is less "manly."
2007-02-17 20:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by Spyderbear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a surprisingly common problem with condoms, especially for men past that first flush of youth. I'm attaching a link to some info that might help.
2007-02-17 20:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he needs more practice on how to satisfy you.
Always have a guy use a condom. If he cannot control his problem, then get another boyfriend. Its not worth catching a disease you may die from. Scratch him out your little black book and move on to someone who can really satisfy you with a condom on.
2007-02-17 21:04:16 · answer #6 · answered by Tumbleweed 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of herpes, AIDS, or some other STDs... go look at ALL the STDs and there symptoms and you'll change your mind. Have sex with a condom on and then take it off and jerk him off. Or wait til marriage and use birth control.
2007-02-17 20:55:30 · answer #7 · answered by Brown-eyed girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Brittney, You will have to get some kind of protection for yourself,unless you want to have kids. A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-02-17 20:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy the man viagera or take him to the doc to get some medical help but if you trust him enough id stay get him tested for stds and yourself and get on the pill or depo provera shot or the patch then you are safe from getting preg or stds
2007-02-17 20:58:54 · answer #9 · answered by jinx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just an excuse, don't let him not wear a condom. tough sh*t for him, let him deal with it. condoms protect against STDs and pregnancy. it's a psychological thing. if he wants to, he'll be fine. don't let him talk you into doing something you don't want to do. tell him to either speed it up, or get checked by a doctor.
2007-02-17 20:52:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋