I make a very good salary, am 35 and want a traditional wife & mother to my future kids.
I really care about two different women but have to decide which to date seriously.
One is 33, drop dead gorgeous, , great good, warm , smart and says she is traditional and wants to be married/have kids within 5 years. But she only has about 190k in savings so far and she is a teacher so she wouldnt make much more before we'd get married.
The other girl is just 28, cute but not stunning. She is very athletic which I like and best of all she owns her own house already. (400K !) But she may want to wait 5-10 years to have kids. She is also very independent because of her job.
Which girl sounds better ? I think its cool the 28 yr old owns her own house, but the 33 yr old who only rents is very sweet and model beautiful.
Who would you pick ?
2007-02-17 20:35:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
homegrown - im not ajerk, my three best friends are girls and they say i m the nicest guy ever.
2007-02-17 20:41:57 · update #1
Don't worry about their salaray, especially since you say you make a good one yourself. Neither should you look at their physical beauty because that's not gonna be there forever -- not when they get old, old, at least. In MY opinion, the 33-year-old one sounds better: She's traditional and wants to have kids within 5 yrs, as you seem to like it.
But, really, go for whichever one YOU 'feel' is the right one; that feeling tends to be the right one at times. Ask yourself which one you feel most happy with, which one seems to ALWAYS be there for you....And be sure to be the same (or better) to her in return. And ask yourself if either of those females fulfills your personal criteria of being your wife, a mother of your children, and a committed life partner to you; if you can't find the answers to these yet, then I think you should wait a little while further and then decide.
Again, do NOT judge either by her beauty and/or money!! Not a wise thing to do.
Best of luck, and I hope you make the right choice!
2007-02-19 11:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by ♡♥ sHaNu ♥♡ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, seems you are comapring the material things that both girls have. Which of the two of them do you love much, which you have to marry because you cannot live without her presence. You suppose to set aside the material things here in choosing the two girls. It should be your heart that speaks because its considerably a lifetime commitment, biblically. Money issues will tackle then as long as both of you help each other. And unless one of you is love the wealthy world which you cannot live without.
Thats only an opinion... ^_^
2007-02-17 20:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the 28 one
2007-02-17 21:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd choose the 33 year-old drop dead gorgeous babe. You'll love spending your time with her. Money isn't everything. I wish I were in your placa and found the gorgeous babe of my dreams. I would've married her at once; even if she were 10-15 years older than me. Truly!
2007-02-18 01:57:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, I think that if you are not sure, then neither of them are the correct person for you to marry. That is not to say you shouldnt date them, as this can lead to sureness. But dont consider marriage until you are sure. When you find the right person, you will know, there will be no question
2007-02-17 20:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by meh. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 06:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by barile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not traditional,and my traditional husband and I go together great! it's not always about being the same, I think it's best to marry your opposite,just make sure you have some things in common!
2007-02-17 20:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by Two Peas 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick the one who is dumb. There must be a girl out there who wont notice how bad you suck. I hope you fall in love some day and loose her for some shoddy reason like money.
2007-02-17 20:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by daisyjzmum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they both send you an sms to meet you which one you will meet and which you give an excuse to go another day ?
the one you will see is the one you should marry .
2007-02-17 20:45:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just choose the one you love, the money does not build a good marriage most of the time
2007-02-17 20:40:54 · answer #10 · answered by gone 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋