Would You Date This Guy?

Question

My Friend Likes this guy He is married for the 3rd time and may be getting a divorce soon has 6 kids with 4 different women doesnt see any of them lives with his mother and is 35 ?? And my friend is not the only one who likes him there are other women? I cant understand any input??

Answer 1

maybe they're all just having either a physical or emotional infatuation or attraction of him..

but realistically,would anyone want to even consider a guy who had (not just 1 or 2 but 3?!) marriages and have a bunch of kids from diff.women?! heck,if he can't sustain at least 2 relationships how much more the next with anyone?

Ask your friend if she wants to be a part of his number of relationships.As for me,not even in my wildest imagination will I ever have a liking for such a guy.

Answer 2

A guy with 3 divorces under his belt despide the fact that he has 6 kids is reason enough to steer clear. It depends on how long he's lived with his mom (though still an ick-factor); it could be very temporary, but if not, that's just another notch to add to the wall.

Logic would deduce that this guy (based on what you've described) is not exactly the ideal partner. But you really can't do all that much; it's your friends life (you know this already). This guy must have charisma up the wazoo if he can still get dates after he's paid off child support.

You can go two routes with this one:

Safe route: let your friend find this out on her own. If she gets more involved and sees how chaotic his personal life is, she just might break it off on her own.

Risky route: calmly list the reasons why your friend shouldn't pursue this guy. Just phrase it in an "I'm concerned" manner. If your friend is receptive to other opinions she'll listen and then decide on her own. Only problem is that she could get very defensive and then you'll be in the positon of injecting yourself into a load of drama that you really don't need.

I have female friends that would bite my head off if I didn't approve of their guys, even when they are complete and utter d%@#$*-bags. So I can empathize with the situation. Just weigh those options and think in your own best interest whether this is something you want to jump into.

Hope this was a little helpful.

Answer 3

yeah he sounds like a real winner. If he has that many kids, by that many women, your friend needs to wise up and realize that either he's not looking for a long distance relationship, just some booty.....or theres a reason no woman wants to stay with him. Either way, he sounds like a total loser..But ...apparently losers attract women. He's probably a jerk and thats why he cant stay married. Maybe your friend needs to ask some of his ex wives why they didnt stay with him.

Answer 4

Yes, Ruin the rest of your life.......... 6 kids with 4 different chicks, is this a joke question?

Answer 5

I've known guys like this and they are trouble with a capital T. They are natural born charmers that have no regard for anyone but themselves. I hope your friend doesn't end up doing something stupid, but from what you say it sounds like she's headed that way.

Answer 6

Wow, no way. But that's from the description... could it be that in real life he is really charming, good looking or something? Otherwise I don't see how your friend could like that guy.

Answer 7

Bad boy syndrome

Answer 8

LIFE IS CRAZY BUT SOME MAN CAN MAKE IT EVEN CRAZIER CAUSE THEY ARE OBSESSED AND RUIN UR LIFE AND HE DOESNT CARE THAT HE HURT LITTLE INNOCENT CHILDREN. I HOPE U BURN IN HELL FOR THE REST OF UR LIFE.

Answer 9

Tell her to run away as far as possible