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ny dad is dead, mum is dying, my job has no future and dirty to work in, every relationship i have fails as i have 2 nice of a heart!
please tell me the best way to suicide painless!

2007-02-17 20:10:23 · 28 answers · asked by MIKI S 1 in Health Mental Health

28 answers

things will get better how can they get worse

2007-02-17 20:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by mountainchowpurple 4 · 0 0

The best way is to not do it at all. Life is very hard sometimes but this is not the answer to the problem. You have people around you that care whether you know it or not and there is no telling what affects this will have on their lives. You need to find someone that you can talk to and fast. As far as the job if you are unhappy with it look at your options... change jobs, go back to school to expand yourself for a job that you would enjoy. Trust me suicide is not the answer and the very real side of it is that it doesn't always work there is no guarantee that you will succeed and if that happens you could end up in a paralyzed state, vegetative, or any number of things. I really hope that you will rethink this, I have had people that I cared about chose suicide and I wonder everyday what I could have done to help them, don't make people who care for you ask themselves the same question. Please.

2007-02-17 20:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by fireproof413 2 · 1 0

Don't look at what u have now u will get depressed.

U have a future, There is a special days coming where u will be joyfull, there is a blessing waiting for u, there is a job coming there is a good and perfect relationship for U.
Just wait
wait u will have it soon, if u died u won't get what is there for u.

U r so speacial and beutiful, future is carring all the best dreams to be truth.

Wait, Jesus loves u, come to him, let him touch ur pain, ur life and work it out with u.

Give urself a chance

i think thousad of times of suiciding. but i wait and things start to get better.

please wait.

2007-02-18 06:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by الحقيقة 4 · 0 0

You are hearing from someone who is 56, and for the first time in my life has called the "Suicide Prevention Hotline"around six months ago...My story is alot like yours, and yet here I sit biding my time by looking for answers... Those that do not feel the dread and heartache inside cant comprehend what its like to feel this way. But from one sad person to another, just tie a rope and hang on tight..do what I do, and find some small interest in life to help you keep on. If I didn't have this computer to keep me company, I dont know what I'd do...probably read Stephen King books, like I did before I got this computer!Hope you are in a better frame of mind by the time you get this...Good Luck "Cyber Pal"...

2007-02-17 20:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by Judy 2 · 0 0

If you are still here it's because God's not ready for you to leave yet! He'll take you when you're done here, until then He still has plans for you, even if you don't know what they are.

Please talk to someone who can help and support you, go to a counselor if you have no one else. Suicide is never the answer, your life may be horrible right now but that will not last forever. And PRAY! Even if you don't believe in God, he's there and can help you get through this.

2007-02-17 20:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by Hamlette 6 · 0 0

You are probably going through a depressive phase, and need to see a doctor as soon as possible We all die eventually; if you have lived a full and productive life, that is enough. Take night courses in something else, like I.T. or learn to become a chef, plumber, or electrician (then apply to come to Australia, because we need people with such qualifications and trades); learn to harden your heart just a little, to protect yourself, and not invest too much emotionally, early in a relationship, only as it matures and trust is earned. Find things you enjoy or find interesting and pursue them. View: www.relax7.com/7.php and www.depression.com/- and the blogs of Shan Eris on "tackling depression" at www.myspace.com

2007-02-17 21:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by CLICKHEREx 5 · 1 0

While you breathe there is still hope.
Suicide is not the solution... There are still people got worst problem than yours. Cancer patients never attempt to commit suicide but instead they try to fight the disease, find ways & hope to live inspite of everything. They start to appreciate life & start living again.
Besides that, if you commit a painless suicide but you can't escape the painful agonies in hell... if you know what I mean. God bless.

2007-02-17 20:32:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Go see a Doctor...go to group therapy where you'll find people like yourself who have maybe found some answers that can help you too. Learn to be a fighter. Don't give in. That's to easy. Get curious about what lies in the future for you. I'm sure you are here to help someone in your life time. Good luck.

2007-02-17 21:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

My brother died by suicide just over a year ago.. It's very hard to try and explain to a person that is feeling depression.. how much you really love them.. They don't believe you, and they don't think anyone cares.. I miss my brother every day, and my life is in pieces.. Still.
He shot himself, died... and I have to deal with this horrible feeling of loss for the rest of my life.. it's not fair.
I will always love him.. But just think of all the people that will suffer your loss...

2007-02-19 15:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by GMaster 4 · 0 0

And that must end us; that must be our cure-- To be no more. Sad cure! for who would lose, Though full of pain, this intellectual being, Those thoughts that wander through eternity, To perish rather, swallowed up and lost In the wide womb of uncreated Night, Devoid of sense and motion? Milton, Paradise Lost

2016-03-29 01:04:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The 2 most important words you used are "I will".
You are troubled, and suffering over many things.
Change your mind about committing suicide.
Instead say:
I will seek understanding and support in my suffering for each of my problems.
I will find what I need to exist, improve and thrive.
I will make it through; God help me!

2007-02-18 04:37:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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