okay so im like 14 and i have this boyfriend thats a white surpremis and i love him to death but my parents have told me a thousand times to lose him and...well i wasn't supposed to even have a bf so lets just say they weren't to happy...and now this and everyone is telling me about his faith in God because i am a christian...but he goes to a church thats christian but isn't so good but he is soooooo nice to me and he loves me and all his friends like me and they protect me and stuff...but i don't know wut to do...wut should i dooooo???!!!
2007-02-17 20:01:48 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You're far too young to be subjected to racial ignorance. Lose this loser before he drags you down, too.
2007-02-17 20:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are 14. Listen to your parents young lady and do as they say! You teenagers think you can just sneak around and do whatever you want to and when you get into trouble and get punished by your parents you think you can run to a social worker and cry wolf! Might I add alot of these social workers are right out of college, or better yet, feminists who have never had a child yet, let alone an out of control teenager. What do they do, they open a TEXTBOOK to find an answer to a life problem. Then they take you and put you in a foster home where the foster parents might let you get drunk and smoke cigarettes. Meanwhile your good parents who only tried to teach you are at home worried, your mom most likely crying because she misses you so much. Then your parents end up taking parenting classes and being raked through the system just to get you back. Hows that for America? WOW! You teens really got it made in your lifetime! Too bad this isn't the 1800's still. You would be getting a whoopin in the woodshed!
2007-02-17 20:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by Dakota Lynn Takes Gun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dearheart, you've chosen to ask this question on Yahoo, a secular site, when I think that you know the answer to this, and that answer is coming from God.
If you are truly a believer in God, and a Christian, then you know that God created mankind in His image, and that means ALL mankind, not just white ones. If you will also recall, Jesus was not white, but a Jew, and I'm quite sure that conflicts with any beliefs a white supremacist would have. Secondly, the things the white supremacists believe promote hatred and violence, which are also things God condemns.
Your parents are quite right, and they have given you good council. And God says that you are to listen to your parents because He not only commands you to do so, but it is the right thing to do.
Perhaps, for now, this boyfriend of yours seems to shine, but I can assure you, the uglier side of white supremacy will show it's face soon enough. And I have seen that side of people when I worked in the jails and prisons. It's not where you want to be. And I strongly suggest that you "lose" him, as your parents suggested, and I promise that you won't regret it. If you truly believe what God says, then you will obey Him and do things according to His will, not what you might want.
Blessings.
2007-02-17 20:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by C J 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, I have been in the exact same situation. AS much as it hurts, you know deep down that you can determine how he will end up treating you by watching how he treats others. You should pray for him. But until he changes is views on humanity in general, it could never work, as far as long term foes because you are a Christian. No matter what he says or has been taught, these are VERY unchristian views. To hate a person is the same as murder, according to the Bible. I would suggest staying close friends and continuing to pray for him but he will not make a good long term boyfriend. I will be praying for the both of you as well.
Brightest Blessings
2007-02-17 20:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by Celestian Vega 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're 14. You listen to your parents! You have more important concerns than some boy no matter what his beliefs are. You need to concentrate on your education and start making plans for your career goals. YOU have to make plans for your future. This boy will not be in your life for long because of the conflict that you have with his ideals. You will have to get your priorities straight. And tell your young friend that being a white supremacist will not pay his bills or ensure his future and unless he wants to end up with limited prospects for security and independence he needs to change his views or at least put them aside. And as a proclaimed Christian you should know that Jesus is described in the Bible as having skin of bronze and hair of wool and that He is of Middle Eastern heritage. The blonde haired blue eyed persona of Him is false. The fact that you believe in and worship a dark skinned man goes against what your young man believes in.
2007-02-17 20:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"White Supremacist" is just a fancy way of saying racist. That is what your boyfriend is. If he is young like you maybe he will learn and grow up, and grow out of that silly way of thinking. In the meantime, you should forget him and try for a better boyfriend. Or better yet wait a while for one.
I wonder where your boyfriend is getting this nonsense from. Are his parents racist? Are all his "nice" friends racist too? You should stay away from people like that. If he goes to church that doesn't make him a Christian any more than going to a pet shop makes him a puppy.
2007-02-17 20:13:52 · answer #6 · answered by out of the grey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if they love and protect you because they feel they should, or because they feel they want to. Remember that love is not always the easy path. ( my husband wasnt!) and Decide if what the teach is though the bible or not. Look up every verse they quote. You are at the age where you need to start deciding for yourself about religion. Take into context the writer and the the time the book of the bible was written. (ie the newtestament was written from the apostles point of view in thier day and age, not ours.) Remember that many churches are corupt, and search your heart for what God wants you to do. Remember that God is all about love, and loving everyone. We are all his creations, and he loves us all. If anything goes against that reject it. This may not be easy, but stay strong in what God wants for you. He always wants the best!!!
2007-02-17 20:10:33 · answer #7 · answered by anamaradancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a Christian I even do not have any issue with a lady in the White domicile. There are a number of examples of girls as leaders of international locations in the Bible that are provided as useful rolemodels. there is Miriam (Micah 6:4-"For I delivered you up from the land of Egypt, and redeemed you from the domicile of slavery; and that i despatched in the previous you Moses, Aaron, and Miriam."), Deborah (Judges 4-5), the Queen of Sheba (a million Kings 10:a million-13, 2 Chronicles 9:a million-9, 2 Chronicles 9:12, Matthew 12:40 2), and Candace (Acts 8:27).
2016-12-04 08:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are christian opinions needed when they are some of the worst examples of racists. Have you ever heard of the KKK?
That is where the skinheads came from and they preach the bible.
Just use common sense and dump this guy B4 he gets you in a bad situation because it WILL happen sooner or later.
Don't listen to the bible thumpers because they will lie to you for the wrong reasons
2007-02-17 20:12:57 · answer #9 · answered by Brad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the answer is painfully, woefully obvious. Think about this...if he were truly a good person, then he would care about all people and not have hate in his heart. He may argue that he doesn't "hate" anyone, he just believes white people to be "better" than the other races or something hairbrained like that. This is worse, because it is a lie (inequality translates to hate. people who believe they are superior have distaste for the inferior). Protection should not have to be something you have to worry about...who is your boyfriend and his friends "protecting" you from, minorities?
Think about this. If this guy were truly a good person, then he wouldn't be a supremacist. He might seem nice, but what if you were black?
2007-02-17 20:09:27 · answer #10 · answered by ThisMachineIsObsolete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skin heads can offer excitement in lieu of security, a steady paycheck, happiness, and a normal life. Ducking garbage thrown at you in rallies, sleeping in tents in Northern Winters, and having surprise ingredients in your food on those rare occasions when you have Mooney to eat out. You might even make one of those TV police chase videos on TV and if you pretend to be a victim you can beat the jail time. You don't have to worry about credit cards as he will never have any credit. If you have kids dumpster diving behind Good Will and the Salvation Army at 3 AM isn't so bad in the Spring and Fall. If it really gets desperate, he can pimp you off so long as you don't get any swastika tattoos where a John can see them. In time you will learn to wear the title, "Public Burden", proudly.
2007-02-18 10:00:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋